Idk, I sort of associate non-con with ‘sexual act without consent within relationships’ where neither participants think of it as rape (but it is). Ofc unless we’re talking about consensual non-con, that’s a different thingI think words like ravish, seduce, coax into bed, rail, any other innuendo etc. would be more appropriate. My guess is that it’s either anti speaking or someone who genuinely doesn’t understand implications, maybe someone young or new to internet sex related terminology. Keep in mind that not everyone who writes in English is native English speaker, it’s possible they learnt word wrongly
Yeah, absolutely. Like I said, its just something that sounds clunky and awkward to me. Takes me personally out of the moment.
Its also that I don’t associate “non con” with a single specific action or activity, since I think of it as one of many tag warnings. Like okay, they’re doing something sexual that’s non consensual, but what? My brain doesn’t add anything XD
I absolutely don’t want to shame anybody who uses it, I’m just an old guy who doesn’t “get it”.
–Toko
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