Yeah, absolutely. Like I said, its just something that sounds clunky and awkward to me. Takes me personally out of the moment.

Its also that I don’t associate “non con” with a single specific action or activity, since I think of it as one of many tag warnings. Like okay, they’re doing something sexual that’s non consensual, but what? My brain doesn’t add anything XD

I absolutely don’t want to shame anybody who uses it, I’m just an old guy who doesn’t “get it”.

–Toko