Different anon. I’ve gotten to the point to where if someone has a dni in general, I just ignore them. Because it’s bold to assume bigots(Nazis, terfs, etc)to respect your boundaries. That’s number one. Reason two is because it’s also something ridiculous that’s either offensive(like excluding someone of a certain orientation)or down right stupid(like “dni if you like this media”). And final reason, they never actually follow their own dni. At all. If you don’t want people to interact with you, don’t fucking interact with them. And don’t bitch about them interacting when you interacted first.
In theory it’s fine to tell others what your boundaries are with a list of people you don’t want to interact with.
But what people are missing is that a boundary is something that YOU enforce.
You can’t control other people’s behavior with a boundary.
Drawing a boundary means clarifying what behavior will cause you to withdraw your presence and interaction with another person.
You cannot use your boundaries to control others.
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