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I need folks to understand that “conflict resolution” does not mean
“every time I accuse someone of something”:
- they will instantly shut up,
- not ask what they did wrong,
- never attempt to explain themselves,
- apologize perfectly in a way that completely satisfies me without me needing to explain how to apologize nor exactly what they need to apologize for,
- and then we “move on” but I’m still allowed to shun them and
- I expect everyone else to be on my side and hate this person
Sometimes, conflict resolution means you learn that your accusation was unfounded and you were in the wrong. You misunderstood something, you overreacted, and YOU caused harm.
Sometimes, conflict resolution means YOU end up apologizing.
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