Honestly as a CSA survivor I hate when mfs always say “OH MY G-D CSA IS ALWAYS WORSE THAN MURDER” because I’m a murder survivor. I say survivor as in complications from it literally lead to me dying for a little bit at the hospital. I still have brain damage from it. It’s undoubtedly the worst thing that’s happened to me. Meanwhile my CSA trauma I’ve mostly worked past. It doesn’t trigger me anymore.
It’s annoying and sometimes harmful when people try to define for others what counts as their most traumatic experience.
People shouldn’t go around trying to define other people’s trauma.
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