runwiththerain:

inhumanliquid:

Hey, Tumblr. Guess what. Relationships are defined by the people involved in them, and that’s that. If people say they’re friends, then they’re friends. If people say they’re dating, then they’re dating. If they say it’s a secret third thing, then that’s what it is. Someone else’s relationship isn’t for you to decide.

this is the same for people’s attraction. if they say it’s platonic, it’s platonic. if they say it’s romantic, it’s romantic. if it’s a secret third thing, it’s said secret third thing. even if you’d view their attraction as something in the binary of romantic and platonic, what they define it as is what it is.