insomniac-ships:

NOT a problem: Primarily liking yaoi, BL, or m x m content.

IS a problem: Treating living, breathing mlm like they’re a spectacle, invading their space, or going “SQUEEEE OMG IRL YAOI!!”

NOT a problem: Primarily liking yuri, GL, or w x w content.

IS a problem: Treating living, breathing wlw like they exist for your entertainment, or asking invasive, inappropriate questions out of the blue.

*NOT a problem: Finding NS/FW queer content attractive or arousing, even if you aren’t necessarily queer yourself.

*IS a problem: Being an Actual Homophobe and claiming that being queer is gross and wrong and perverted, all while still using NS/FW queer content for your sexual gratification.

(* using “queer” as a blanket term here!)