hxrnyonmain-deactivated20220829:
Sorry I didn’t get back to you it’s just that I’m completely unfit for human interaction.
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They have to be heeled and steel toed… for reasons
Applying this kind of purity rigor to your shipping seems really depressing and stressful.
Listen to me when I say this to you.
Calling yourself antiship or making fun of “proshippers” will not save you from being cyberbullied by other antishippers for your ships.
The same people who claim that “proship means pedophilia” also call everything else proship.
They will harass you for
- age gaps
- toxic/abusive ships
- sworn brothers
- childhood friends
- yandere content
- kink content
- any pairing you ship that they don’t like
This. There is never a guarantee that a bully won’t bully you. The only way to win is to oppose bullying.
the same thing that’s wrong with every label
😔 misinformation and smearing from opponents makes people outside the community believe the label means something bad.
😔 loose application within the community creates terminology drift
😔 people expect every person who uses the label to hold the same unrelated ideologies that they do