The harm your need for Nestle bars does (theoretically) is not a direct cause of suffering or harm to anyone, and is only impactful in the cumulative sense.
No one blames a single pebble in an avalanche.
This is exactly the point I have been trying to make all day.
Imagine getting to sleep in the same bed with your F/O for the first time.
They lift the covers for you to snuggle in with them, and get comfortable. The two of you cuddle, working out gently what positions you’ll sleep in, and who will spoon whom.
The bed is warm and cozy, and you and your F/O get to relax in one another’s arms and drift off to a peaceful sleep together.
