if we can’t be silly and funny together then what even is the gosh darn point of it all
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u know when ur friendly w a mutual but u don’t know their name. like heyyy…you💗
- get some gross sicko pals to be a gross sicko with. having at least one or two who you can be a hater with too is a must. helps you save face from airing your grieviances in public. and honestly nothing more satisfying that sending some stupid shit into the group chat being like “lmao u seeing this???”.
- stay away from anybody who acts like fandom is serious business/activism
- never feel like you need to justify your likes/dislikes to some dumb cunt on the internet
- something making you uncomfortable isn’t the end of the world & often it’s actually quite good to examine your own discomfort/disgust and what it stems from. builds character.
- block/mute/unfollow at the drop of a hat
- make sure to cultivate your interests outside of fandom and read things other than fic, this one, i’d say, is ESSENTIAL
I’m so sorry, anon. I don’t know what your friends are like but maybe you need better ones?
Men deserve love too, men need emotional support too. It’s okay to cry, it’s okay if you’re struggling, or having a bad day, it doesn’t make you any less of a person. I’m so proud of you for being so brave everyday. Despite everything, you’re still fighting. You’re a warrior, you’re so strong. You’re amazing. You’re handsome just the way you are, your body is beautiful just the way it is. I’m so glad you’re here, remember that you aren’t alone. I love you. 💖💖