the thing that’s obnoxious about a lot of age gap discoruse is that it feels less about curbing out potential abuse and more the fear of getting old/being around older people, particularly when stops even being about actual relationships and just older people being AROUND younger people.
like people saying it’s “creepy” for older gay men to go clubs that also contain younger gay men or people saying it’s “suspicious” for older people to go to all-ages concerts. which i don’t know, just isn’t a healthy way to live considering that if you actually go outside you’re going to find your self around people who are not in you’re immediate age range and your going to have to deal with that.
i’ve seen lgbt discord servers that had an age limit of “30 and under″ as in if you were over 30 years old they’d kick you off, and like. i honestly don’t understand what the point of an age limit like that is apart from fear of the idea of possible relating to someone older than you.
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