I love selfshipping. It’s like this big “show and tell” where we show the world something that brings us so much comfort, where we show them a part of ourselves full of love. And all the other people that are also there don’t judge you for it: they support you, they validate your emotions. And then you do the same to them. It’s an experience that’s so personal yet also very collective, in a sense. This is a community where we are all united by our shared love. We don’t even need to like the same things to be friends, as this shared experience is enough to bond over. So yeah, I love selfshipping.
i feel like for me itâs the language shift from âcreativesâ to âcontent creatorsâ which takes the focus away from the person and what theyâre doing and puts it on the output of their work. and somehow even with the same root it takes away the actual act/process of creativity
I Forgot That You Existed: How does your f/o handle being wronged? Do they hold grudges or are they the type who lets everything roll off their back?Â
Cruel Summer:Â Was there anything that stopped you from shipping with your f/o at first or was it love at first sight? Are things more complicated than they appear?
Lover: What is your favorite part of the life youâve built with your f/o?
The Man:Â What strengthens your f/o in your opinion? What do they believe strengthens you?
The Archer: Has you f/o had a positive or negative relationship with love in the past and how has that affected their relationship with you?
I Think He Knows:Â List all of the things about your f/o that make you fall in love with them a little more each time!
Miss Americana & The Heartbreak Prince:Â If you and your f/o ran away together, where would you go?Â
Paper Rings:Â Would you and your f/o ever consider getting married?
Cornelia Street:Â Do you and your f/o live together? If so, what is your domestic life like? If not, what would it be like if you moved in together?
Death By A Thousand Cuts: How do you and your f/o handle bad times/how are you there for each other when life gets rough?
London Boy:Â Do you and your f/o travel? if you both could live somewhere besides where youâre from, where would you like to live?
Soon Youâll Get Better:Â How do you and your f/o take care of each other when one of you is sick?
False God:Â Do you think of you and your f/o as soulmates? Why or why not?
You Need To Calm Down:Â Do you have any lgbt+Â headcanons for your f/o?
Afterglow:Â Do you and your f/o fight often? How do you and your f/o apologize to each other? Who apologizes first?
ME!:Â What do you love the most about your f/o? What do they love the most about you?
Itâs Nice To Have A Friend:Â Were you and your f/o friends before you became lovers?
Daylight: How has your relationship with your f/o changed your opinion of love? How has their relationship with you changed their opinion of love?
