I had a friend who I thought was the best person ever until I found out the hard way that they held my past actions as a jerk and anti against me bc I hurt them. Even if I didn’t condone harassment, i had views that hurt people ik. I found out bc I said that I relate too much to this character who’s a shitty person and they said, “Oh my God, fuck off and shut up, don’t you dare say that again.” And went on an extremely wrathful rant and said that they’d never forgive me if I left their side.
That sounds like a very unhealthy relationship to be in, anon, and I hope that you and the other person can step away from each other.
Maybe you can reconcile your differences later, but it sounds like you both need a break at the very least.
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