Hey anon.

My advice here is that there’s no need for your host to reach out to anyone yet.

The best thing at the moment is for the two of you to communicate and begin to understand and share with one another.

I think the first step is for you to share this message you sent us with your host, and ask them to respond to it, and find out how they feel about your feelings and desire to help them. The two of you can start a dialogue.