If anyone thinks they can tell for certain that an author’s intention was to romanticize a harmful actions in fiction the author wrote, they are simply wrong.

There is no way you can tell an author’s intention unless they tell you directly “this was my intention”.

Anything else is your personal interpertation.

When someone is reading fiction with abuse in it and saying it was romanticized, it is because they are interpreting it to be romantic.

The perception of the abuse as romantic is in their interpertation of the text.