hi! i’m having a bit of trouble with something selfship-related, if you don’t mind answering. i’m currently in the process of making a selfship blog (it’s private for now lol) and i just can’t shake the embarrassed feeling i get while working on it. i feel cringey and weird and i really don’t want to feel that way. have you felt this way before? do you have any advice? thank you for your time have a lovely day <3
Hey, pal.
I, and we, only started publicly self shipping in the community a little more than a year ago, after losing a friend who was a part of the community and introduced us to it.
When I started making this blog I felt extremely cringey and self conscious, and that was the case for the first few months.
You just have to push through.
Interacting with other self shippers and seeing what they do helps a lot. It might be easier to interact with other people and talk about their f/os to start out. Comment on posts. Send asks. Maybe do imagines.
We’re all here to have fun and enjoy ourselves. We leave cringe at the door!
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