As someone with npd, criticism I’m not at least warned in gonna get is always so… Bleh… Like if I’m already in a bad place, it just drags me lower. Even if I’m alright, I get pissed off or really sensitive. I need a warning, and it’s why I largely just say to not leave criticism on my fanfic.
Right? This discussion just shows another way that antis and fancops don’t actually care about neurodivergent people, mentally ill people, traumatized people, etc, they just want to use as a “gotcha” for their arguments.
Unasked for criticism can be incredibly destabilizing for people with npd, rejection sensitive dysphoria for any reason, anxiety, ocd, etc!
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