badmrkitty:

Dear antiship minors.

I’m not sure how to phrase this politely. You know that it isnt normal to be wondering what the adults in your life get off to in your free time? My father could be into feet. I don’t know. I don’t want to know. It doesn’t affect my life in any way, and the knowledge would curse me.

It feels really fucking gross when you go up to me and start talking about and assuming my sexual preferences. I would go as far as to call it sexual harassment. If I were who you think I am, I could use you talking to me about sex as an excuse to hurt you. But since I’m not, I feel just really fucking uncomfortable.

Going up to some stranger and talking about sex with them as a teen is way more invasive and harmful than reading correctly tagged fetish porn.

I’m not saying you can’t be involved in discourse as a teen. I was. But please avoid talking about the sexual aspect of discourse with strange adults before you get seriously hurt!