the person you’re arguing with saying stuff about “normal” erotica and “not normal” as if something being “normal” is what everyone wants and the definition of “normal” can be used to exclude literally anything depending on whose saying it
Some people believe that “normal” is a rigid and unchanging standard, rather than something that is different for everyone depending on their culture and upbringing.
They believe that whatever they believe is normal is normal across the board, and everyone else’s views are abnormal.
It’s implicitly xenophobic.
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