Same, anon. We try never to say “pedophile” when we mean “child molester” or “child predator”.

Just like we try never to say “narcissist” or similar when we mean “abuser.”

Saying the one when you mean the other is ableism pure and simple.

Sometimes it feels like the majority of these people just want an acceptable target to be violently bloodthirsty against.

unfortunately, many do.