If you mean the guy I recently followed, he immediately dm’d me telling me he’s a minor, so I unfollowed not even five seconds after to keep both of us safe. We were both polite.

I block bloggers that have proship dnis in their bio, yet I reblog selfship posts that are relevant to me because the self ship community is for everyone and was made by proshippers (ie, normal fandom) in the first place.

I don’t give a shit if you call me “gross” – I’ve been called far worse. The internet isn’t a safe space for children, and if you can’t understand that nor understand that adults made fandom what it is, then that’s your problem.