I know you’re probably sick of asks on the subject but I also want to say that the idea of children abusing their parents can be weaponised by abusive parents and were by mine. Like I would raise a concern or tell them to stop or do something they didn’t like and they would tell me, “you’re so abusive”, “you’re such an abusive bitch” and “what did I do to deserve this abuse”
Yeah, we have a lot of asks about this right now, and I don’t want to extend the discussion or drop them on people all at once.
But this one is really important.
Abused children hear all the time from their abusive parents that they, they children are the real abusive ones.
Abusive parents constantly victim blame their children.
I don’t really have any more to say on this subject than that.
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