I dislike how common it is for people to think that normal means correct and good. Words such as “not right” and “weird” have been thrown at me all my life for things that just come naturally to me. Expecting everyone to fall into your brand of normal is a downright cruel thing to do.
Trauma is going to cause behaviors you think are strange because that is what trauma does to a brain. Just because something is weird and unhelpful to you does not mean everyone has to mimic you. You just want to feel superior and controlling.
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