🚫 assumption: our parents are people you would consider upstanding members of the community who would disapprove of the fictional pornography we enjoy.
✅ truth: our father is a self-confessed pedophile who is outspoken in his belief that it’s morally noble to impregnate teenagers; spent most of our childhood having inappropriate sexual relationships with teenagers; forced us to read graphic rape content, and was party to our own CSA. Our mother is an enabler who loves porn.
🚫 assumption: we are able to be employed, and thus have a boss and coworkers.
✅ truth: we are disabled and housebound.
🚫 assumption: it is appropriate to tell your parents, boss and coworkers about the kind of pornography and kink you enjoy.
✅ truth: It is sexual harassment to tell people– especially your coworkers and boss– about your sexual habits, kinks and pornography for no reason. You could be fired for that.
🚫 assumption: Most people have pornography, kinks, and sexual habits that you would approve of.
✅ truth: because it is inappropriate to talk randomly about your pornography, kinks and sexual habits, you don’t have any idea what type of sexual habits the people around you have. You just make assumptions that they are what you would consider normal.
🚫 assumption: Most people believe it’s okay to treat people like shit for the fiction and sexual content they enjoy.
✅ truth: only bigoted assholes believe it’s appropriate to treat other people like shit for any reason.
🚫 assumption: people who enjoy taboo fictional sexual content are ashamed of this fact.
✅ truth: Most people can go into Barnes and Noble or the Library and hand materials that would make you blush to the cashier.
🚫 assumption: the people close to us don’t know about the fiction we create and enjoy.
✅ truth: the people close to us know and enjoy the same things.
this is crazy. anyway (for context i’m pretty introverted at work and don’t like to make friends with most my coworkers) one of my coworkers literally describes themselves on linkedin as (parphrasing) “specializing in helping people cope with fiction” and WE DO NOT EVEN SPEAK TO EACHOTHER so i dont bring it up thatd be weird. but anon has clearly never gone outside or interacted with people. anon pls dont tell me youre talking to ur coworkers abt sex
Ive been asked this before too and its so obvious these antis have 0 social skills. Guess i shouldnt even be surprised when i get sexually harassed by antis by this point because clearly they dont know what is and isnt appropriate
The thing is they also assume that the reason a person gets fired for talking about their kinks fetishes and etc are being fired for ‘being proship’
when the reality is: if someone, actually truly literally, went up to their boss and said “I wank it to x y and z on my off work hours and felt you should know”
their boss is NOT firing them for ‘being proship’
they are FIRING them for being a pervert and sexually harrassing their EMPLOYER.
They (antishippers) can SAY it’s because their boss doesn’t approve of their kinks, fetishes, etc, but the reality is; no, they got fired for being dumb enough to take your advice in the FIRST PLACE ANON.
I find it amusing how often fancops accuse proshippers of being inappropriately sexual–
– and yet it’s fancops who make inappropriate speculations about the sexual habits of others, sexually harass proshippers, and encourage proshippers to sexually harass other people.
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