thecalypsolotus:

Using Fiction to cope is VALID

Minors DNI

So I just saw on Twitter some dumbass kid who shouldn’t be on Twitter anyway because it’s for adults, try to invalidate another CSA survivor and just CSA survivors in general who cope using dark fiction. And try to especially say that person a’s points and what they’re saying is invalid because they’re proshipper which is wrong. And then proceeded to tell person a to get therapist. When said person said they already had one and multiple that recommended using fiction to cope, the dumb kids said to get a new therapist and at the therapist was wrong. The professional who knows what they’re talking about is wrong because the kids said so. And then the person the kid was arguing with was a psych major so they even especially knew they were talking about because the kid asked for proof and a bunch of people sent them proof and they proceeded not to read it. Like at that point is obvious you’re wrong because you just want to stay ignorant and ignore that you going to be wrong when the proof they asked for is right there.

If you’re a person who tries to invalidate other people in the ways they cope cuz you don’t like it, you’re a dumbass and a piece of s***, I don’t care who you are. Especially if you are a victim of some sort doing it to other victims. You don’t get to dictate the way someone copes.