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xxblackheartbiohazardsxx:

🔹 It’s okay to have a bad relationship with your mother.

🔹It’s okay to not have a relationship with your mother.

🔹It’s okay to not want to have a relationship with your mother.

🔹You are a complete and whole person without a relationship with your mother.

🔹You do not owe an abusive or toxic mother, love, affection, respect, or contact.

🔹It’s abusive to hold having birthed you over your head as a debt for your entire life.

🔹”I brought you into this world, I can take you out of it” is abuse.

🔹Shaming and insulting a child does not help that child grow. It is abuse.

🔹Hitting your child is abuse.

🔹Screaming at your child is abuse.

🔹It was bad enough. You can call it abuse.

🔹You do not owe your abusive mother anything.

🔹Treating your children like monsters for expressing their own political opinions is abuse

🔹Mocking your childrens interests is abuse 

🔹Not taking your childs health seriously is abuse, mental or physical

Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx