For anyone who needs it today:
🔹 It’s okay to have a bad relationship with your mother.
🔹It’s okay to not have a relationship with your mother.
🔹It’s okay to not want to have a relationship with your mother.
🔹You are a complete and whole person without a relationship with your mother.
🔹You do not owe an abusive or toxic mother, love, affection, respect, or contact.
🔹It’s abusive to hold having birthed you over your head as a debt for your entire life.
🔹”I brought you into this world, I can take you out of it” is abuse.
🔹Shaming and insulting a child does not help that child grow. It is abuse.
🔹Hitting your child is abuse.
🔹Screaming at your child is abuse.
🔹It was bad enough. You can call it abuse.
🔹You do not owe your abusive mother anything.
🔹Treating your children like monsters for expressing their own political opinions is abuse
🔹Mocking your childrens interests is abuse
🔹Not taking your childs health seriously is abuse, mental or physical
🔹Not disclosing a health condition that can be hereditary & that they very well may ALSO have, to your child, thus preventing them from getting treatment for it earlier on, because you’re afraid of how it will make YOU look bad, is abuse.
🔹 “Other people have it worse, you should be grateful you’re not as bad as ___/you should be grateful for what you have!”, especially in response to your child voicing a legitimate concern to you. Is abuse.
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