prokopetz:

prokopetz:

I think that if you want relationships depicted in your fiction – whether primary media or fan-work – to be emotionally compelling, there’s really no getting around the fact that one of the most compelling relationship dynamics in fiction is “hey, wouldn’t it be fucked up if”.

And I don’t just mean “one of them is clearly taking advantage of the other” type relationships, either. There’s a whole spectrum of upfuckery to explore, including (but not limited to):

  1. Each of them thinks they can fix the other, but really they’re just enabling each other’s worst impulses
  2. Sticking together no matter what because no matter how bad they are for each other, the terror of the unknown is worse
  3. You’re pretty sure staying in this relationship constitutes a form of wilful self-harm; for whom is genuinely unclear
  4. They actually just straight up hate each other, but each regards the other as the only one who Gets It
  5. They’re perfectly happy together, but the way they play off of each other is harmful to literally everyone around them