I’ve been thinking about what exactly it is I hate so much about this new round of fandom-as-activism, even though I’m a Black person, and I think it’s the same reason why I avoid online book circles–doubly so, if they mostly push YA. There is this constant use of passive voice that assumes the speaker is helpless and completely without agency, as though the act of reading a book, playing a game, or watching a movie/show is the same as an attack on one’s person if you don’t like the media. “This game depicts a route wherein one of the love interests is a stalker!” Okay, turn off the game. “This BL manhwa depicts a stalker and a serial killer/misogynist being in a toxic, maladaptive relationship! It’s not a romance! The fans are sick, evil people” Okay, this manhwa isn’t the first of its kind, nor will it be the last. There’s dark romance that’s M/F, M/M/, and F/F., and they’re extremely popular. You clearly don’t like it. Stop reading. “This danmei shows the two main characters as awful people who abuse and lie to each other over and over again! How could people like this?!” Yes, that’s why the core fanbase likes it. Stop reading it since it’s not your thing. “This YA novel has a love triangle with an older, toxic ML who is controlling to the main character and seemingly forces himself on her! Inappropriate and pedophilia!” Ravishment fantasies are extremely common across races, ethnicities, nationalities, genders, and sexualities. Young people should have ways to engage with their sexualities without harm from the real world and older people. Stop reading it. “This fanfiction depicts instances of racism that I don’t like! It’s harassment!” It’s not harassment, and it’s not mainstream media that’s everywhere. You have to go out of your way to read it. Just stop reading it. “This HBO show and its predecessor shows incestuous relationships, the most popular being an uncle-niece relationship! They’re promoting incest.” It’s just a story. incest is common in monarch/noble-centered stories to symbolize the decay or decline of said family or noble class, as well as being common practice in real life nobles because of blood purity. You clearly don’t like it. Just stop watching.A book, fanfiction, movie, show, manga/hwa/hua is just a text, of sorts. It is an object. It cannot perform action. It cannot hurt anyone (unless we’re talking about propaganda, which is something different). Everyone engages with and interprets a story differently because we all have individual experiences that we bring with us that results in specific dislikes or triggers. Engaging with media is not the equivalent of someone hitting you in the head with a sledgehammer because that will universally hurt. Someone being offended by a book or show is not universal because of the previous explanation. I’m not sure if these people actually like these things but want to prove their moral purity, so they complain and attack or whatever other reason. It always just comes across as extremely performative, unnecessary, childish, and American (pejorative). They act as though the world is constantly testing them with temptation via media, and they must pursue the path of penance and flagellation or risk going to hell. Grow up. This is so embarrassing.
by admin
on June 8, 2023
at 10:38 pm
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