phantasmagasm:

Oh question to other selfshippers, do you have like – irl partners? Do you consider your f/os as your irl partners?

For me, I enjoy and love having f/os, but I also have my actual human husband that I’m married to and I live with. We’ve been together for years.

(I haven’t told my husband the specifics of f/o stuff but we’re both queer weirdos and it’s not something he will have an issue with, I just haven’t gotten around to it, lol.)

we’re married, and our partner also is a selfshipper ^^