I don’t mean to sound like…weird or creepy or anything but your aplatonic post resonated with me.My brain doesn’t process stuff “correctly”. I think in my case it’s probably trauma and neglect, but there’s definitely a layer of “I’m just like this”, too, I think.Idk I wanted to come and say “Hi! I get it!” and maybe let you know it’s not as bad thing to be. I know firsthand that “It’s okay for people to be like this” and “It’s okay for me to be like this” can be entirely separate issues, internally.Doesn’t stop me wishing I could just get really really attached to everyone I know and look up to, though ^^” I crave attention and I crave the ability to give it back tenfold.
Not weird or creepy at all, anon. Honestly I appreciate you reaching out. It’s nice to hear from people and to know there are people with a similar experience.
“I think in my case it’s probably trauma and neglect, but there’s definitely a layer of "I’m just like this”, too, I think.“
I definitely feel this way about my own experience, too. 🤝
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