lierdumoa:

burins:

“he would not fucking say that” but it’s “they would not be having carefully negotiated bdsm manual sex”

All erotica writers should ask themselves this question: “Am I including kink negotiation in this scene because I think it makes the sex hotter/more interesting/more believable/more entertaining, or am I letting the imaginary morality cop that lives inside my head police what kind of sex I’m allowed to write?