Yeah, we have a lot of asks about this right now, and I don’t want to extend the discussion or drop them on people all at once.
But this one is really important.
Abused children hear all the time from their abusive parents that they, they children are the real abusive ones.
Abusive parents constantly victim blame their children.
I don’t really have any more to say on this subject than that.
Grant me the wisdom to take my own advice.
Whumpee: “The doctors are horrible. They’re mean to me.”
Caretaker: “Whumpee they’re saving your life.”
Whumpee “Well they could save my life a little nicer.”
TW: medical
Oooh I like this. Especially if the doctors are doing some actually sketchy shit that Caretaker doesn’t get to see because it happens in surgery. Sure they may be saving your life but they sure as hell can still fuck it up.


