CW ableism and emotional abuse My mum had (probably still has) this issue where whenever she learnt about a new idea from us, say like LGBT or a neurodivergence, she would go on this whole journey of being a piece of shit about it until eventually she would calm down and be somewhat reasonable. But it was EVERYTIME with anything new, you’d think she would learn her lesson from the last time…

by on March 10, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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That sounds extremely frustrating and emotionally damaging to you, anon. I’m so sorry you have to deal with that!

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“Don’t compare us to conservatives, most of us are queer!” So is Blaire White and Kalvin Gara, both trans, conservatives, and pos. Also another point, if you don’t wanna be compared to conservatives, don’t cozy up to one just because he prioritized a fake child over a real one like y’all. Seriously, y’all disowned him and doxxed and threatened him and his family the moment it was revealed he was donating to conservatives despite how his fanbase is largely queer. Suddenly his transphobia is irrelevant and he’s cool now for agreeing with you? And antis say our morals are fragile and warped?

by on March 10, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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Exactly! If you don’t want to be called a conservative, just don’t hold and express conservative values!

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I have a weird question question that might fall under self shipping and I kind of know nothing about the community. I’ve been doing this thing recently where I send myself love letters and respond to them. I’ve just designated a part of me as “the not entirely consenting receiver” and the other as “the irratatingly persistent stalker who won’t go away,” kind of as a way to indulge in romance and self love in a humorous way. Is there a word for shipping yourself with yourself or having a relationship with yourself? I’m trying to stay away from the whole syscourse thing, as I dont think? what I’m doing is related. I literally know nothing about any of that other than that various different groups have lots of dnis against each other that scare me. Also no worries if this is a question you aren’t interested in answering.

by on March 10, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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Anon, that is super weird. AND I LOVE IT!

Like what a cute and wonderful idea; that sounds so fulfilling and nice!

I have no idea where this falls in terms of plurality or self shipping at all, and no idea if anyone else does it. But I absolutely love the iea.

If anyone else does something like this, please share your expediences.

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I remember being initially worried about people commenting on an age gap between my fandom OC and a canon character since one of them is 27 and the other is in their 40’s, but then I remember, there will be people that will act like a 27 year old dating a 40 something year old is “pedophilia,” even though the youngest of the couple is over 18 (or over 21 in other countries’ cases), and a popular ship which I will not name for obvious reasons has an age gap too, so I stopped worrying altogether. And also, saying that a twenty something dating someone way older than them is “pedophilia,” is infantilizing and dehumanizing people in their twenties. Plus if someone comments on how uncomfortable a 27 year old in a relationship with a 40 something year old is for them, I can just remove the comment and block ‘em.

by on March 10, 2023 at 7:24 pm
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“Pedophilia” is whatever a given anti finds icky. They use the word like a magic curse or talisman. -_-

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