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by on February 1, 2023 at 8:26 pm
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Proship Misconceptions

šŸš« Misconception:Ā  A ā€œproshipā€ is a ship that involves problematic content.

šŸ‘ Reality: Proship means supporting the rights of people to ship what they want. ā€œProshipā€ is a label for the person doing the shipping, not for a ship thatā€™s problematic.

šŸš« Misconception: Proshippers are people who support pedophilia and/or incest irl

šŸ‘ Reality: Proshippers are people who support the rights of people to ship what they want. Proshippers support the rights of people to ship taboo or problematic pairings like under age ships, or ships between people who are related, but proshippers support these things in fiction not real life.

šŸš« Misconception: Shipping something means that you support or endorse all aspects of the pairing, and consider it ideal and romantic.Ā 

šŸ‘ Reality: Shipping something means you want to see fiction about a relationship. It does not mean that you think toxic or problematic elements of the ship are good, healthy, desirable, or that you want them in real life.

šŸš« Misconception: Proshipping means romanticizing and glorifying toxic, problematic and taboo relationships like pedophilia and incest.

šŸ‘ Reality: Proship means supporting the rights of people to ship what they want. It doesnā€™t mean that you endorse or support concepts from dark fiction in real life.

šŸš« Misconception: If you find something hot and get off to it in fiction, it means you want to do it in real life.

šŸ‘ Reality: No, no it doesnā€™t. Asserting that people want to do in real life everything they enjoy in fiction is weird and gross.

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itā€™s kind of fucked up how antis will exploit people who have survived cult environments, people who have survived abuse (especially CSA), and people with OCD, and especially minors with those experiences, to spread their hateful rhetoric. you can definitely say that a lot of those people are also victims of the bigger or more influential antis

by on February 1, 2023 at 8:26 pm
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I would 100% call them victims of antis.

Fancops say they support survivors and the mentally ill, but its demonstrably false. They exploit them in order to spread their toxic ideology.

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Itā€™s so sad that that user thinks theyā€™re a bad person for enjoying a piece of fiction. Antis have such a cult like mindset that as soon as one of them decides to read something ā€œbadā€, they begin to feel guilty over nothing. I really do hope that theyā€™re counsellor is able to convince them that theyā€™re not a bad person, that theyā€™ve done nothing wrong and enjoying ā€œdarkā€ fiction really does not hurt anyone. Really, I just hope they donā€™t do anything to harm themselves. I donā€™t agree with their view about how enjoying these things make you a bad person or whatever, but no one deserves to feel so terrible over enjoying a story, or reading it at all :( – šŸ¢

by on February 1, 2023 at 8:26 pm
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I did check up on them on their blog to see if there was any resolution.

It seems that their counselor suggested that they might have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

They havenā€™t posted about pro/anti stuff since then.

Hope things get better for them.

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i really want to talk about being plural but canā€™t really do that irl so iā€™m rambling in your inbox, sorry iā€™ve only kind of recently discovered that iā€™m a system (like, sometime within the past couple of months or so) and now that iā€™m aware of it, thereā€™s lots of little things about us/me that iā€™m noticing. iā€™ve always had a pretty odd relationship with our memory (we dissociate a lot), but learning weā€™re a system has got me kind of looking back on our memories, and looking at them through a new lens. like, the fact that before i realized we were plural, i used to say ā€œitā€™s like my memories are all organized in a file cabinet but iā€™m not the one who got to organize them.ā€ looking back of that one made me feel a bit like hitting myself in a ā€œwow, i canā€™t believe it took this long to noticeā€ way also, a lot of the things i know about ourselves and our past arenā€™t really things i remember first hand, theyā€™re more like someone told them to me. i just know about them, rather than having lived them, if that makes sense? especially for my childhood memories. we seem to have what i can only describe as a ā€œcollective memoryā€ā€”for the most part, we know about what happens day to day, regardless of whether we actually remember it as a thing we did or not. it can be a little embarrassing because iā€™ve had some moments where iā€™m like ā€œi want no one to know about this thing EVERā€ and then the whole system knows šŸ’€ it helps that theyā€™re usually pretty chill about whatever it is, even if it makes them think iā€™m weird. itā€™s been a kind of interesting introspection, i guess. there isnā€™t really a point to this, i just donā€™t have any friends who are systems/chill about systems that i can mention this to, and iā€™m scared to bring it up to our therapist, so itā€™s come out into your ask box. feel free to ignore this. i hope you have a really good day/night!

by on February 1, 2023 at 8:26 pm
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We experience that type of memory for the most part too, anon! Though certain memories do end up locked off to certain people and have to be deliberately shared.

The file cabinet metaphor is familiar and useful too.

ā€œWhole system knowsā€ is such a mood. Thankfully, weā€™ve gotten to a place where weā€™re all comfortable enough with each other that it works out. Glad thatā€™s the case for most of you too.

Feel free to ramble in our inbox any time.

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