You’re busy with some mundanes task, and you catch your F/O staring at you with a strange expresion on their face.

You ask them if something’s the matter.

They shake their head, and smile. Nothing, they tell you. They were just thinking about how much they love you.

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Selfship Valentine Prompts!

I’ll probably make another post closer to the 1st of feb, BUT i wanted to try out some prompts myself, and figured why not share?

Starts 1st of feb, ends 14th feb!

You don’t have to draw to participate! Writing, headcanons, rambles, thinking about it for a while, anything counts, this is for fun not a competition :>

Prompts below!

• 1st Feb – ❤️“Will you be my valentine?”: You/your F/O ask the other to be their valentine! Is it a first confession, is it being sweet in an established relationship? ❤️
• 2nd Feb – 💜“Small displays of affection”: How do you and your F/O show each other small affirmations of affection? Do you touch hands, bump your head against their shoulder, make a soft little ‘a’ noise at them occasionally? 💜
• 3rd Feb – 💛“A shared activiy”: Do you and your F/O have a favorite passtime you do together? Do you have multiple? Have you discovered new hobbies together?💛
• 4th Feb – 💚“Fond memories”: Do you and/or your F/O go through photos, diary entries, or memories from earlier in the relationship? Do you have any favorites? Do you like to take/make a lot of keepsakes for memory or do you prefer to live as you go?💚
• 5th Feb – 💗“Favorite Media”: What movie/show/game/book/etc do you and your F/O enjoy enaging with together most? Is it ongoing or do you revisit it on occasion? How did you end up getting into it?💗
• 6th Feb – 💕“Mixtape”: Do you have a song or playlist for your F/O? Does your F/O have a song or playlist they associate with you? Do you listen together?💕
• 7th Feb – 💟“How it all started”: How did you and your F/O get together? Was it sudden, slowburn, enemies to lovers? Feel free to gush!💟
• 8th Feb – 💖“Sweet kisses”: How/when was your first kiss? If you or your F/O can’t/don’t like to kiss, what was your first outward display of affection?💖
• 9th Feb – 🧡“Comfort crutch”: If you/your F/O are upset, how do you cheer each other up? Movie night? Favorite snack and a blanket? 🧡
• 10th Feb – 💝“Future Foward”: Do you or your F/O have plans for the future? Bigger house? Move in together? Get married? Or do you just like to see where life takes you?💝
• 11th Feb – 💘“Meet the folks”: Have you/your F/O been introduced to friends and family? How did it go? If you can’t/wont, is there a reason?💘
• 12th Feb – 💞“Just a few of my favorite things…”: What are some things you love about your F/O? What are some things they love about you? Gushing and rambling encouraged!💞
• 13th Feb: – 💓“Preparations!”: Do you and your F/O need to prepare anything for Valentines Day? Do you need to plan outfits? Do you need to double check reservations? Do you just chill in pajamas and relax?💓
• 14th Feb – 💌“Valentine’s Day!”: How do you and your F/O spend the day? Date night out at a restaurant? Hitting up an arcade? Buying a boatload of snacks and marathoning a videogame or movie series?💌

These are absolutely polyamory friendly! Feel free to just do one or a few if you don’t feel like doing them all but you like a couple of ’em!

These are intended for Romantic F/Os, but who said you can’t take your qpp/friends out for valentines? 😀

That’s so fair, anon, change can be very scary, especially internally.

Please remember this though:

Faking is a conscious action. You can’t fake being a system by accident. You can theoretically be mistaken about being a system and actually have something else happening– but you can’t be fake without knowing that you’re doing it.

Faking is a show put on for other people. If you have to ask yourself ‘am I faking this’ (whatever ‘this’ is), then the answer is that you’re not.