full unambiguous uncaveated bodily autonomy including universal access to resources by which you can have your body surgically altered has got to be the bottom line in your “choice feminism” discourse because for one thing anything less is ceding easy ground to transphobes
good luck distinguishing the Good and Virtuous transsexual surgeries that bear no relation to social paradigms of desirable or normative bodies articulated in eurocentric terms from the Bad and Noxious cosmetic surgeries which are only ever taking place due to social paradigms of desirable normative bodies articulated in eurocentric terms and materially implementing that distinction when you advocate for which surgeries should and should not be Allowed. let me know how that works out for you
foreplay is not the kissing right before he fucks you, foreplay is the 32 hours you spend torturing him in a shipping container before you even let him see you naked
