Fancops don’t realize that a lot of our parents and grandparents just don’t care, or straight up loooove fucked up fiction.
I can relate to antis because our parents are also controlling, authoritarian puritans who shame us for our interests.
But we don’t think that’s a good thing.
I’m not saying antis don’t understand parents that aren’t authoritarian but they gotta get it from somewhere…
“Would you tell your parents” is suuuuch a privileged outlook.
I’m not gonna trauma dump but we don’t tell our parents jack shit.
“Would you tell your boss” is meanwhile an appeal to an authority most of us simply don’t respect.
Im trans but i am absolutely not telling my parents that
And i wouldn’t tell my boss i was trans. Or disabled. Or that i don’t have a car
Actually y’all.
There are things your Boss CANT EVEN legally be allowed to ask you. So what the fuck makes these antis so entitled to think they’re entitled to somebodys information? Even shipping interest? That nobody is entitled to know?
Nobodys entitled to know SHIT unless you feel like disclosing it
Fancops never understand that other people have experiences different than their own.