We need to take away the phrase “violating boundaries” from fancops/puritans because they’re really just going the route of “you’re violating my boundaries by having sex in your bedroom in your private residence with your significant other”
I feel like in order to have personalized boundaries with people, you have to actually have a pre-existing relationship with them.
Otherwise, you abide by the same basic “don’t be a dick” rules you use for strangers on the street.
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