More fancops dividing people into “good survivors” and “bad survivors.”
You guys (fancops) really don’t understand how bad that is, do you?
Like, why it’s messed up to police survivors based on how comfortable or uncomfortable their reaction to their trauma makes you?
Mine isnt even a ‘coping thing’ its a principle thing. It’s not being the arbiter of what someone is allowed to write.
I dont bitch at people writing mlm demanding that they ‘prove’ to me they’re a guy or actually gay. I dont bitch at people who write trauma, demanding they ‘prove’ they’re coping or whatever.
I dont harass people and send death threats over what silly blorbos they make kiss, or kill. Because dark fiction isnt always sex. And the principle applies to gore AS MUCH as smut. But antis don’t like that. They think sex is -more evil- then gore.
There are also no perfect survivors. People are messy. And sometimes its easier to defend ‘victims’ that have no voice, because they can’t tell you you’re full of shit. (Anti-abortion assholes that scream and throw raw chicken at people, anti’s bitching about fictional characters ‘consenting’ or not)
Also!
Based on your likes tells you more about you. Are you just afraid of being -outted- by all your friends? (Since y’know, the consequences of antis turning on you is something other antis might worry about) or that the stuff you’re interacting is a lot more laxed then what you think it is. Thats not even getting into your tags. You arent special. (I get tons of proship dni suggestions cause of the tags i have followed)
Im pretty sure that tumblr just knows you like shipping, and thus just throws stuff at you.
And no. You dont know why. You aren’t in other peoples heads. Nor do antis even make attempts to understand in any genuine manner. (Those that are ex-anti generally being the exceptions, love yall btw) you dont empathize with proshippers. You dont try and see why somebody might take comfort in ships. You dont try and see why others who DONT do ‘toxic ships’ also use proship. (Its because cyberbullying, stalking, and online harassment is a core action of antis, and not good.)
You just go ew icky, and think people should be your pretty little victims. Fuck antis.
“I can fix him.” I can lay bleeding and weeping in the mud, desperate to spend all my fading strength on the one last hope that might give us another chance .
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