Hey guys you know cnc isn’t just “rape roleplay” right? Giving your husband permission to initiate sex without asking is cnc. Asking your gf to wake you up with a bj is cnc. Agreeing to down a bunch of drinks before you see your friend and have sloppy drunk sex is cnc. Suggesting your partner surprise you with one of your sex fantasies is cnc. “Forced” roleplay is totally cnc obviously, but so is any time you’re giving consent to a sex act that you won’t be able to explicitly consent to in the moment. Acting like that’s not the case shows a concerning misunderstanding of what consent is and how it actually works.
Bratting is CNC, too. That’s why it’s critically important for the d-type to have some way to stop your bratting without funishment or whatever you’re after. A safeword, a “not right now” that stops your bratting 100%, whatever works for you. But a “if my dom to stop they’ve gotta make me stop!” is not leaving space for them to revoke consent to you bratting.
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