televisionforwhales: Some ppl are like “I’m a kinky sex-positive pervert freak!!!” and then make fun of virgins and asexuals….. sure, reclaim freakiness but keep working on that because teasing ppl for their sex lives (or lack thereof) is, unfortunately, very[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
ceasarslegion: ceasarslegion: Psst You. Yeah, you. Over here When someone says or means “i want to fuck another consenting adult of sound mind who acts like/roleplays as x” it does not mean “i want to fuck x” Yes, this includes[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
stop saying “degenerate” (nazi word) when what you *mean* is “depraved” (extremely sexy word.)
cherrystonefemme: Uh oh bestie. Turns out, if you want the rewards of being pillow princess, you have to submit to the mortifying ordeal of telling the service top what you want đ
threeninesfine: can-i-make-image-descriptions: t4t4t: dorkichiban: Similarly, if every sexual encounter involves bringing someone back to your house, the general sexual activity in a city becomes anxiety-filled, class-bound, and choosy. This is precisely why public rest rooms, peep shows, sex movies, bars[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dominant-dominion: Being a submissive doesn’t mean being passive. You as a partner have a duty to explain how, when, and where you like to be used. It will help you get the best sex of your life while also giving[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
crippled-peeper: crippled-peeper: crippled-peeper: having sex with your friends is so very normal please stop poisoning the youths minds with shame surrounding hooking up with your friends. especially if youâre gay people are so fucking mad in the notes that adults[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
orcbara: orcbara: i think it’s important for most people’s mental health to have a space where they can safely and unashamedly express being horny and i don’t mean milquetoast tongue-in-cheek “oh step on me mommy” jokes or whatever i mean[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
chthonic-pain: chthonic-pain: chthonic-pain: chthonic-pain: porn isn’t evil or misogynistic you just grew up culturally christian and are scared of sex like yeah it can be a brutal industry and i don’t want to minimize the issue of people being filmed[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
zuble: zuble: zuble: zuble: ??? why are âfriends with benefitsâ now considered a cringe straight people thing???? friends can fuck. itâs literally fine people on here are like âyou CANNOT fuck someone unless you really love them and are in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pojkflata: I am sorry but this tendency of hypervigilantly assuming every kinky person will violate you in some way if you happen to tick one of their boxes is beginning to approach “I don’t mind gay people as long as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I appreciate the enormous list of radfem blogs to block. “sources” that claim that BDSM and kink are harmful are overwhelmingly drawn from the same well of christofascisct conservative “research” that republicans use to justify all their restrictions on your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
runs-red: Being anti-ship or anti-fiction is just inherently and sometimes blatantly anti-kink. “Romanticising/sexualising abuse”, “using my trauma as a fetish tool”, and literally any variation of “you use trauma as a kink so you think it’s great” has been said[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
xenasaur-archive: xenasaur-archive: xenasaur-archive: kittenadventurous: xenasaur-archive: btw. being kink positive means ALL kinks even the ones you think are “immoral” or whatever the fuck. “but what about-” especially that one. no sex act between consenting adults is immoral actually. kill the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
principaliteas: “anti-kink” is so funny to me. ohhh you’re scared of sexy make-believe? ok. lol
pickled-flowers: Sex positivity is also about not calling Ace people prude and using virgin as an insult đ hope that helps
runawaymarbles: It was kind of a joke between me and a friend (“you wouldn’t judge someone for having gone rock climbing with a bunch of different people”) but honestly the more I thought about it the more I bought into[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
freezing-and-i-fall-deactivated: dabwax: trans-girl-nausicaa: fluorescentbrains: this shit is soooooo infuriating to me like some people have trouble climaxing through NO fault of their ownâmaybe itâs a natural variation of their bodies maybe itâs medication side effects maybe itâs traumaâitâs actually really[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gotham-ghoul: the-fear: repulsivedog: repulsivedog: freaks and degenerates are just so much nicer and kinder than the rest of you idk. i love you perverts with illegal and unethical fantasies thank you for being so nice to me no, i meant[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
freakqueer: YES its a knife in my pocket, AND im happy to see you. both can be true.
beewitch4: âPro tip: You can think about gay sex on the clock. It’s free and they can’t stop you.
quasi-normalcy: evilsoup: thiswaycomessomethingwicked: tami-taylors-hair: dollblooms: tami-taylors-hair: dollblooms: tami-taylors-hair: I wish age gap discourse hadn’t spiraled the way it has because I want there to be a safe space to say “Men in their 40s who date 25 year olds aren’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
usagichanp: we really gotta stop shaming people who have sex for sex’s sake, not as some big declaration of love or connection or whatever. like if you only have sex when there’s a deep emotional connection that’s totally fineâ for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
noivern: noivern: i miss the sex workers and kinksters and toy collectors and furry porn makers so much man rocking back and forth on the front porch cradling a mug of tea on my lap blanket eyes misting fondly as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“This romance novel damaged my delicate woman brain and now I need to have my innocence restored via paternalistic medical braindamage.” WOW THAT SOUNDS SO PROGRESSIVE! Lets hear what John Kellogg, inventor of cornflakes and noted hater of masturbation has[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pomrania: bemusedlybespectacled: prosocialbehavior: headspace-hotel: no-terfs-no-swerfs-no-fascists: doublism: my instagram explore page loves showing me those like erotic dark romance novel tiktoks and i really have to wonder: why do all these straight women desperately want to fuck a mafia boss Okay,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
genderkoolaid: zerometis: genderkoolaid: also btw im sorry but we HAVE to acknowledge that marginalized people are gonna be into problematic kinks too. there are trans people who are into misgendering & detrans kink there are gay people into conversion/orientation play[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
natalieironside: natalieironside: It’s just fucking amazing to me that even now in this foul year of our Lord 2023, “Consenting adults can have sex however they want and it’s none of your business” is a hotly controversial statement and not,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
loverbearbutch: loverbearbutch: loverbearbutch: i need all the weird neo-puritans of tumblr and toktok and twitter to realize that people have been having fun casual sex for literally all of human existence and thatâs a good thing you think our ancestors[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
All consensual sex is gay sex as long as it pisses off the straights enough.
versegm: Arrrgh I already complained about it but man. Fucking hate how weird people are when it comes to sexuality in art. “Ohhh this only exists because the writer was horny it can’t possibly have anything deep to say” fucking[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
versegm: Arrrgh I already complained about it but man. Fucking hate how weird people are when it comes to sexuality in art. “Ohhh this only exists because the writer was horny it can’t possibly have anything deep to say” fucking[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
misanthropiccatboy: decadentsymmetry: misanthropiccatboy: inevitably people who hate porn only end up criticizing a very narrow section of everything that qualifies as pornography because they don’t actually know very much about porn, yet they hate all of it, because the problem[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
misanthropiccatboy: ademinem-deactivated20231217: misanthropiccatboy: inevitably people who hate porn only end up criticizing a very narrow section of everything that qualifies as pornography because they don’t actually know very much about porn, yet they hate all of it, because the problem[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
newsmutproject: loverbear-butch: loverbear-butch: actually sex is fun and casual if you want it to be and serious and sacred if you want it to be bc you make that choice for yourself and nobody else! thank you @a-flawless-catastrophe for this[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
newsmutproject: loverbear-butch: loverbear-butch: actually sex is fun and casual if you want it to be and serious and sacred if you want it to be bc you make that choice for yourself and nobody else! thank you @a-flawless-catastrophe for this[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
roadhogsbigbelly: i think the reason so many people online are like “yeah i respect sex workers but i think anyone who’s pays for sex is a cum brained freak” is that so many people seem to unintentionally view desiring sexual[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
roadhogsbigbelly: i think the reason so many people online are like “yeah i respect sex workers but i think anyone who’s pays for sex is a cum brained freak” is that so many people seem to unintentionally view desiring sexual[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
At that paraphilia anon, I am also a trauma survivor, so I prefer to not interact with people who have “dangerous” paraphilias (for a lack of a better word) just block and move on, if they’re not pro contact or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t even see the problem with being anti-para. Proship means what I like in fiction =/= condoning it irl. So, I don’t condone it. Why do I have to bend over backwards and prioritize people like my abusers? We[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Until only the good decent people are left” So they aren’t even trying to hide they have the same mindset of extremist christians anymore. Good to know, I wonder if they know the atrocities that mindset has created for some[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
im glad tumblr is finally becoming a safe space for everyone. dont like it? leave! leave and take all your pals with you until only the good decent people are left The good people who are not sexual abuse survivors[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
i honestly hope this pro-censorship wave is just a really shitty era of tumblr and one day we can go back to before – advertisers and antis are fucking this place up đ *looks at the social and political climate[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Another thing that worries me about this ban: We all know that for antis, 30 year old disabled people are the exact same as children, because “they have the mind of a child”. So if it goes as bad as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Puritanism took over online fandom â and then came for the rest of the internet well, this article is nothing if not timely. Although it seems to be unaware of the most recent development. Note: this article is by Aja,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I mean this with all the kindness, gentleness and sincerity in the world, anon. why should anyone who knows what you’re shipping know what you look like? why should anyone who knows you IRL know what you ship? If you’re[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Time to look up resources for unlearning sex based shame! 💖 in all seriousness, I think that would be helpful. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
fag-time: being gay and having sex and enjoying sexuality is good by the way. in case you forgot. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Ummm…. maybe proto-kink? Fixation? Kink egg? 🤣 I totally get what you mean though! Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
yourantagonist: catgirlforeskin: weaver-z: pieces0fconsciousness: lesbianbottomemes: origammmi: lesbianbottomemes: the gay girl dating scene is really like this why did you add this to my post about wanting to have sex with women The post that almost went to horny jail, then[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🐌🐌🐌🐌 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
drdemonprince: Mourning Porn on Imgur, Mourning Trans & Kinky History As of May 15th, image sharing platform Imgur will be purging its site of all not-safe-for-work and anonymously posted content. As part of the site’s new terms of service agreement, Imgur’s definition[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
boiledquarters: Saw a post tagged with “proship” and also “sex positive” and it actually made me so fucking angry. Define what “proship” means and how you perceive it to conflict with sex positivity, Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Antis, I beg you to genuinely examine this question: Why do you believe that violent or abusive sexual fantasies are more difficult to resist than other violent or abusive fantasies? Please explain it to me in a way that doesn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
genderkoolaid: The argument against kink in public seems to be, to my understanding, that any kinky act is has some inherent sexual component or motivation, and therefore kink in public is equivalent to sex in public, and therefore indecent. Wearing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
cazort: blackheart-biohazards: The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape. Seriously how many people have, out[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
frogsforthefrogwar: I wish more supposedly sex positive people were a little more normal about cnc kinks Like enjoying consensual nonconsent is incredibly common and completely morally neutral
marshemillow: It’s ironically poetic to me to see people on this site who easily understand that video games can’t cause real violence, nor is liking violent video games in any way suspicious or revealing of your true character, but then[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
lady-writes: stele3: hellallamerican: transgender but in a problematic way that cant be sanitized by teens who are trying to reinvent the hayes code Asexual but in a really gross way that approves of kink at pride and all sorts of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
party-gilmore: blackheart-biohazards: All consensual sex is gay sex as long as it pisses off the straights enough. Literally though this is like literally the concept behind anti-sodomy laws. It wasn’t just no guy/guy fucking it was literally ANY oral and/or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
theconcealedweapon: Pride was originally a riot. It’s not supposed to be “family-friendly”. Those who want family-friendly LGBT spaces are free to just create them. Take places that are already family-friendly and make them LGBT-friendly also. If you don’t want to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dead-pidove-do-not-eat: âLiking taboo thing in fiction is FINE, but god forbid u make it SEXY and HORNY!!!â Not 2 be rude but what the fuck. Just because there are erotic elements and shit added doesnât suddenly make people lose all[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
diabolocracy: “Why can’t you just be normal :(” Fun fact: rapekink is normal. Age play/infantilism and furries also appear on at least one survey list. They appear on other “what are the most common kinks” lists too. Why can’t you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
cistematicchaos: ovanilinavo: birlinterrupted: i hope there are more of these women so that queer women can sexualize my titties instead from the persistent desire: a femme-butch reader [ID: Two images, the first a cropped screenshot of a tiktok caption saying,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
xirlos: trans-mom: trans-mom: “You wearing a collar in public is bad cuz I didn’t consent” you wearing a bracelet in public is bad cuz I didn’t consent to it. Yall don’t really have a right to consent to other peoples[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: They seriously don’t realize the irony in declaring some harmless sexual activity as bad when conservative shits have been doing that for centuries. Women were discouraged from reading novels when the printing press first made them mainstream because women[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Tell me you’ve swallowed the terf and conservative anti-porn rhetoric, without telling me (or knowing yourself) that you’ve swallowed the terf and conservative anti porn rhetoric.
overnightbags: Im putting kink into the next room and shutting the door for a moment. It’s okay if you cant climax. If you struggle to come or cant. Whether by your hand or someone else’s, that doesn’t make you bad[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
lgbtunis: people on here r rly like ‘attraction to big people is fetishistic, attraction to small people is pedophilic, having sexual thoughts about a real person is objectifying and basically harassment (and having them about fictional people is perverted), kinky[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hatingongodot: I do think it’s worth “examining your kinks,” at the very least because if you can find an underlying theme you can use it to find other, stranger kinks. Broaden your horizons
Assuming you’re trying to avoid dating websites and apps (which I would suggest avoiding) my advice is to seek out 18+ furry spaces, be that discord servers or art websites (try furaffinity). Also fetish roleplaying spaces. Even if you’re not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
foone: FUN FACT: I own porn I can’t watch. So this is a copy of Adultery for Fun & Profit, a 1971 X-rated film. It won the Grand Prize at the Amsterdam Adult Film Festival, for the year 1970-1971! BUT[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
prontaentrega: wishing everyone a 2023 full of nasty & weird transgender sex
dead-pidove-do-not-eat: The experience of being queer is not inherently sexual. That is undoubtedly true and it is queerphobic to assume and reduce queerness to being sexual. With that being said, however, there is a culture of control surrounding sex, pleasure,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
ragnarokascendant: evilwriter37: lifbitch: âintended to cause a sexual response on the parts of the viewersâ being written as a negative thing is almost enough to make me crack up. News flash apparently: humans arenât allowed to get aroused or writing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
xenosagaepisodeone: itâs strange to watch people scare themselves into becoming socially conservative about sex because theyâve specifically primed themselves to think about kinds of sex that are normally regarded as unremarkable with bad-faith fearmongering premises. last year at the height[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
radiofreederry: Reblog if you are a âfemale pleasuristâ
aspecpplarebeautiful: You’re allowed to feel differently about sex or romance in fiction than in real life. What we’re interested in fiction or fantasy doesn’t always line up with what we want in our actual lives.
synechd0che: cocooffhershiz: synechd0che: cocooffhershiz: kaile-hultner: kaile-hultner: Just thinking about how republicans are going after normie sex shit like “internet porn” and “dildos” now we fucking told y’all to be clear: the right views any sex that isn’t purely procreative as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sirfrogsworth: I cannot figure out why conservatives find sex toys so scandalous. They are especially upset that high school age teenagers are being taught about them, as if they aren’t aware of their existence already. And god forbid Walmart sells[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis, why do you care so much what sexual thoughts other people are having? Please understand you cannot police other people’s sexual thoughts and feelings without handing ammunition to the authoritarians who want to police all sex. When you police[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
things-antis-say: ok. sigh. to go along with my post yesterday, just like proship people don’t have to accept pro-para people, there’s also nothing wrong with pro-para people being proship paraphilias become disorders (i.e.: something you should seek mental help for)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hussyknee: Shout-out to the brazen AO3 smut crankers posting the nastiest, most unholy filth I can only save in private bookmarks. Y’all’s cojones are solid brass. The international sexual deviant community thanks you for your service
knotbinary: Ugh so irritating when people are like âDNI if youâre anti-kink but also DNI if you have this particular kink Iâve deemed immoral.â Blocked.
Proship? No you misheard, I’m hoship. I ship sluts, whores, disaster bis, and big damn polycules. đ
whorecatboy: Penetration is a gender-neutral act. Topping is gender-neutral. Bottoming is gender-neutral. You are not more or less of a man or a woman depending on how you fuck. You are not âfake transâ for having sex a certain way.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
pinene: overall, this idea that sex is supposed to be a sequence that roughly follows kissing -> handjob -> blowjob -> penetration, and the subsequent idea that each of those steps is inherently more intense/intimate/pleasurable than the last.. is like[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
ragnarokascendant: evilwriter37: lifbitch: âintended to cause a sexual response on the parts of the viewersâ being written as a negative thing is almost enough to make me crack up. News flash apparently: humans arenât allowed to get aroused or writing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
wander-wren: itâs 5am i have not slept i have a hot take i see antis argue sometimes that you CAN portray âproblematicâ things in fiction, as long as you show theyâre bad/donât romanticize them. first of all thatâs super suggestive.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
renthony: renthony: For a website that always talks about how much it loves hot MILFs, tumblr sure is hostile toward middle-aged women being horny. I think it’s very telling that I keep having to block people for using this post[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
genderkoolaid: seeing kink is not participating in kink. if there is a Dom/sub couple walking around in public, and you see them, you are not being forcibly pulled into their dynamic. you have no relationship with these people. you are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s definitely not too much to ask, anon. It sucks when people treat sexual practices that they aren’t personally into as being objectively disgusting. People need to realize that no everyone shares their views, and just because you aren’t into[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thaenad: Letâs talk about objectification. How many times have you heard the statement âIf youâre into ___, youâre objectifying ___ peopleâ ? Objectification is a very real problem. and yes, it is especially present in kink and fetish spaces. But[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…