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I’m fuckin tired of having everything needing to be as squeaky clean, sanitized and soulless as possible so some rich Republican fuck running the ad companies doesn’t frown. Tumblr said they weren’t gonna go after the written stuff when Pornmageddon[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What if we all just went in and reported the antis for violating tumblr’s rules against harassment? you’ll get a nice message from tumblr explaining to you have they haven’t actually broken any of tumblr’s rules. we’ve gotten several of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Antis: “Just learn to follow the rules!” Try following the anti-harassment rules. to be strictly fair, tumblr doesn’t enforce those rules! they’re meaningless! 😹😹😹😹 Can’t talk about your sexual assault experiences but you can graphically tell someone how they should[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I didn’t spread rumors about Tox I do admit i have wrongly assumed Tox is an admin on Aethy, but it also gives Aethy the implication that it won’t ban problematic users despite there being evidence of harmful behavior “Just[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
There is a rumor spreading that a well known user called “Tox” is the one in charge of running Aethy, which may be uncomfortable to some people. I have investigated this, and while it appears that Tox does use Aethy[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Puritanism took over online fandom — and then came for the rest of the internet
on May 25, 2023
at 11:27 am
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Puritanism took over online fandom — and then came for the rest of the internet well, this article is nothing if not timely. Although it seems to be unaware of the most recent development. Note: this article is by Aja,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
How to prepare for, and recover from, getting your account terminated Here are some ways you can be prepared to recover from a termination with a new account. NUMBER ONE TIP: Create a task to auto-backup every post you make[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What if we all just had fun and were nice to each other, and kindly and politely avoided people we didn’t want to interact with? No? That’s too much to ask, huh? :/ Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
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Shockingly, nice people are kind and accepting of weird behaviors and like to have fun. It’s amazingly only controlling assholes who think it’s right to abuse people into obeying strict social norms. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Absolutely true. Not in every case obviously, but in general the less you reveal about yourself the safer you are from being harassed about fucked up fic. Context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I don’t get why are y’all worried that much about being doxxed if you follow basic internet safety steps Because they’ve been trained by social media starting with facebook and now twitter and tiktok to always share their real name,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If your email is purpose-made for fanfic stuff and doesn’t have your real name attached to it, then it’s completely fine to use! Remember, cyberstalkers need real information to doxx you. Doxxing isn’t magic, it’s Sherlock Holmes connecting the dots[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
drinksglue: I think one of my favorite things is when antis are like “omg you got banned from AO3?! What did you write that was so fucked up that even they didn’t like it?!” because they just can’t fathom the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah things like “abuse” and “harassment” are pretty easy to define in simple legal terms. Unlike, say “childlike proportions” or “problematic.” Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I think you’re right about a lot of the people who just have “proship dni” in their bios. Its the vocal antis that I’m really worried about; the ones ho genuinely seek out and abuse proshippers for fun. The rest[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh hell… anon, I’m so sorry that you and your friend are going through that. That’s awful. That’s hell. My advice: Both of you, delete all of your social media accounts (NOT your AO3 accounts). Create new tumblr accounts. Ditch[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I hope they grow, and learn, and change. I hope they look back with regret and shame, and are able to forgive themselves and do better. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It absolutely has the exact vibes. Like bullying anon what you are doing is perpetuating the cycle of abuse. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
brettdoesdiscourse: Once again begging people to stop casually putting wishes of harm/death on good posts. You can actually make a good point without “if you disagree die btw” It instantly turns the majority of people off from liking/reblogging your post.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Having squicks triggers, preferences and boundaries doesn’t make you an anti. Proship means “ship and let ship”– that you don’t harass people for what they’re doing. you stay in your yard, and they stay in theirs. Trust me, my friend,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I honestly haven’t seen any of this at all? On tumblr at least? On twitter I know there’s some infighting between proshippers and lolisho enjoyers– specifically because the lolisho twitter users are not anti harassment and often go around cyberbullying[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah, it’s not subtext. it’s text. it’s a thing that happens. It’s not like you can read/see the material and argue that she didn’t commit sexual assault. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
🍽️🍽️🍽️🍽️ That’s a good one!. 😂 context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Yeah, Kotoko commits sexual assault directly on screen in the game, as well as lots of murders. She is fully aware of and cognizant of the fact that she’s committing sexual assault. It’s not an accident or a joke, it’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Let’s talk about fancops ‘protecting fictional children’, with the regard to the belief that they should never be aged up and never be shipped with anyone. Let’s talk about Kotoko Utsugi. In the canon media where she appears, Kotoko Utsugi[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It makes them feel like this guy: Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
It’s nice to hear about fancops potentially receiving consequences for their IRL violent behavior. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
They say “never attribute to malice what can reasonably be attributed to stupidity” but sometimes I genuinely believe that rather than being ignorant, many antis are using rhetoric to genuinely and deliberately cause harm. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
They’re not embarrassed because they think that being a bully to people that are acting “incorrectly” is good and noble. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh yes when antis suicide bait people IRL it is all in good fun, but when a proshipper writes a fictional story about shipping suddenly people are getting hurt! context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
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Talk to me more about these flamewars, anon, because I don’t see them happening on tumblr. What I do see is antis/fancops attacking, harassing and deliberately creating a hostile fandom environment for proshippers, and proshippers responding to that by pointing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Sounds like the kind of random anon hate from antis where they make wild assumptions about the media you create and consume based on the label “proship”. We’ve gotten hate for writing “anime porn” before which we don’t do. Source:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
These are shameful. Thank you for sharing. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
That’s because when antis say “go to therapy” what they are actually saying is “I want you to be punished until you are ‘normal’ as per my definition of normal.” Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Um, actually, I think you better pick up a comic book, anon because I’m pretty sure bullying turns you into a bitter but charismatic super villain. seriously though, take your pro-child abuse takes elsewhere. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Anon you are absolutely wonderful. You are a complete and whole person whether you have a relationship or not. I’m so sorry that people make you feel like you were broken, and I hope that you continue on your journey[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anti on anti violence. 🍿 context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
I know! It’s because cyberbullies are more than happy to break and abuse rules to get what they want (aka get people termed) but us people minding our own business and playing by the rules don’t do that. So they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
catgirl-catboy: Okay, I’m tired of hearing vague “proshippers harass people too”, since you never give me a definition of harass, or specific names. I’ve seen antis count everything from “hey, nice blocklist you have there. Can I ask to be[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Please someone tell me if this is actually about wrestling. Is somebody really made about wrestling shippers??? Source: xxharryosbornxx
I have realized that it may be helpful to the community to document my journey of finding out what happened to our blog, and hopefully restoring it! Please note: I believe our blog to have been wrongfully terminated via automation[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m so glad! yeah all of our sideblogs have two or three admin accounts that we control <3 context link Source: xxharryosbornxx
👏 Yes, “fiction affects reality.” 👏 But you are responsible for your own actions. 👏 Shifting blame for your actions from yourself onto a third party (fiction) is an abuser tactic to deny responsibility for causing harm. 👉 Thoughts and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Mass-reporting to trigger auto-termination is a sadly common tactic among abusers and cyberbullies online in order to harm people who are posting things they disagree with. Here are some ways you can be prepared to recover from a wrongful termination[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dandelions-n-honey: If you see someone do something you don’t like/think is disgusting, morally reprehensible, or even illegal, be it something they said, done, shipped, wrote, drawn, believe in, etc that causes no inherent harm and your first course of action[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
boyoutdated: antis are running rampant these days with the same old same old 🥱 reminder that they’re anonymous pussies who don’t deserve your time nor your energy. don’t respond to them with your heart in tact, they could’ve blocked u[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
@things-antis-say Rest in peace 📯📯📯 (I’m playing taps for your account) We’re so sorry to hear that your account got nuked, partly because that means we’ve all lost access to the excellent library of antishipper harassment and hypocrisy that you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The two most important fandom skills are: 📌 Ignoring things you don’t like 😔 📌 having fun!!! 🥰
Because their belief that their moral view is completely objectively correct means that they make absurd leaps of logic. Here’s how an anti thinks. 1. “Nasty icky art is bad.” 2. Therapists would not tell someone to do something that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I may write weird and gross fictional ships but at least I don’t bully and threaten strangers! 🥰 Sending love to everyone who has been bullied or threatened over the content of their writing or ships.
Oh gosh anon!! That’s not how you spell kiss!! Kissie kissie kissie I love you too tho!!! 💖💞💕🥰
Unfortunately, parents who mistakenly believe that thoughts and fiction equate to real world harm do exist, and they can hurt us. I’m sorry you have such unsupportive parents, anon. We can relate.
It really can be the case. Because if you tag, then when fancops decide they want to harass somebody for the contents of that tag, they know right where to find you. But if you don’t tag, no one can[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t think that makes you a hypocrite, anon. People, all people, are allowed to have ships they don’t like. You’re allowed to complain about it an insult it in private. As long as you’re not being outwardly hostile to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The problem again and again comes back to fancops not understanding, and not wanting to understand, that people have experiences that are different from their own. They want everyone to be “normal”, as in “like them.”
context link Yep. That is exactly why people hide that they’re proship. To protect themselves from unjust harassment and threats. Too bad this fancop doesn’t get that.
It’s absolutely the difference, anon. If proshippers were harassing antis on the scale that antis harass proshippers, they would never shut up about it. There would be daily callout posts. Bad actors exist in every group. There are proshippers who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
People don’t want to learn about things for themselves, they just want to be told the answer. The human mind also makes it easy for the “scariest” answer to be equated in our brains with the “truest” answer. So sometimes[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I think that people should read things that challenge them. I think they should read things that are contrary to their views. I think that they should read things that make them uncomfortable. I think they should read things that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Because they mistakenly equate possessing a harmless aesthetic with being someone who does not cause harm.
People like to boil things down to their ‘simplest’ definition. The simplest definition also is the one that lacks nuance. Paraphilias are thoughts and feelings. If we believe that thoughts and feelings do not equate to harm, then we must[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Fancops like to have it both ways. On the one hand they consider their bullying and abuse to have no affect on people because its “just online” and its “words on a screen”. But at the same time they insist[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I want to be the person I needed when I was little So much of that sentiment drives our motivation too, anon. You sound like a wonderful person, and I’m glad that these kids have you to rely on.
🤝 thoughts do not equate to harm. 🤝 fiction does not equate to harm. 🤝 art does not equate to harm. 🤝 only harmful actions equate to harm. Thinking about something, enjoying thoughts about something, enjoying or creating fiction ot[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I wish I had the energy for a more lengthy reply to this but literally thank you so much. 😭😭😭 (we don’t get fussed too much about pronouns too much so no need to worry about that.) I really[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“terminally online millennials”. Okay literal 16 year old.
That is so nice to hear! I love it when people’s parents are so supportive!! 💞💕
I am so dreadfully tired of all these “"antis”“ who think that it’s charming and noble to dictate to other people what stories they’re allowed to tell and how they are and are not allowed to play make believe. It’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💌 I love you fans in weird fandoms. 💌 I love you shippers with weird ships. 💌 I love you self shippers with weird f/os. 💌 I love you writers of weird fics. 💌 I love you artists of weird[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for not bullying people over fiction 💞 Thank you for not being a jerk to people who write or draw things that you don’t like.
Dear police. I am writing to you to confess to the heinous crime of having written fiction in which imaginary characters commit and befall many actions of a perverse, obscene and illegal nature. I remit myself to your custody and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
septmilleneurones: blackheart-biohazards: The context here is that when this person says “pedophiles”, they mean self shippers who imagine themselves kissing fictional characters. I know I harp on this a lot, but a lot of these people then pat themselves on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The context here is that when this person says “pedophiles”, they mean self shippers who imagine themselves kissing fictional characters.
Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you. I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re right. It’s because they’re all synonyms, and they all mean the same thing. They mean “I don’t like you because you aren’t like me, and I only want people who are acceptably like me to exist.”
Gay marriage? Transgender discourse? Kink discourse? I could probably go on.
There is no such thing as fiction that is too self indulgent, anon. I hope you do post and share it. It is always okay to use your dark experiences to share your perspective in fiction. The world is richer[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
what-a-bastard: People love to be like “I’m anti-harassment because I don’t believe in harassing people over fiction!” then readily harass people for other things and it’s just… no actually you aren’t anti-harassment, you just have different parameters as to who[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
badmrkitty: Reminder that proship does NOT mean that you are personally okay with every kind of ship. A ship can make you feel sick. A ship can make you unfollow a person and never look back. A ship can make[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Man. We just wanna kiss fictional characters. Nobody gets hung up on the ages of the characters except you fancops. “she’s in high school”– she’s an imaginary idea! She can be an astronaut if I want her to be.
Just another example of fancops policing one another and spreading paranoia.
There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs. Abusers.
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It’s always okay to feel that something is: icky, gross, upsetting, disturbing, disgusting, repellant, triggering, nasty, weird, unsightly or in bad taste. What isn’t okay is: insulting that thing to it’s creators face, wishing violence on that thing’s creator and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blackheart-biohazards: ❤️🔥 There is nothing special and bad about sex in fiction. ❤️🔥 Abusive, ‘nasty’, illegal, or taboo sex in fiction isn’t any worse than anything else bad in fiction. ❤️🔥Reading or writing about a type of sex in fiction[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that that happened to you. Online socialization is so, so important for so many of use that are homebound. It’s another dimension of antis ableism that that is something they don’t even take into account.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have seen a lot of fancops using ableist language, and eugenics terminology and viewpoints. I have seen a lot of fancops hurl around racist insults and be openly antisemitic. I have seen a lot of fancops who are obviously[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Isn’t it funny how antis hold blorbo responsible for the atrocities blorbo committed when its YOUR blorbo? But THEIR blorbo is mysteriously perfect and unproblematic? –signed, a fellow fictive
We saw that post too! It’s so sad and upsetting… I think the anti numbers are diminishing, but the rhetoric gets closer and closer to other conservative stuff. It’s what we call a “moral panic.” :C
Anon, I’m going to be real with you. I’m in the fandom that has a lot of actual 6000 year old dragon lolis in it. (Fire Emblem). And lots of people (outside anti communities) create lewd work of the 6000[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, we are so glad that you have gotten yourself out of that toxic mindset. Please take care of yourself, and have fun!
the terf juice, anti porn, sex negative attitudes are all rooted in the same place, too. Conservative purity culture. Its all the same shit you see in Fox news filtered down into fandom spaces!