traumatizeddfox: “but it wasn’t that bad” did it hurt? did you feel scared? unsafe? were you embarrassed? humiliated? terrified? did you feel confused on why? does it keep you up at night? do you avoid being in a similar situation?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sweaty-confetti: sweaty-confetti: if i have to see someone use the word “grooming” one more time in an incorrect way i’m going to start throwing things. like YES this person had an inappropriate relationship with this other person. YES this person[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I used to talk more about my experiences of having endured child abuse, and other abusive situations publicly on tumblr. And then the blog I discussed those things on was banned for doing so, nuked so hard that every post[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
traumasurvivors: Sometimes abuse is disguised as “punishment”. And I want you to know if your trauma comes from “punishment”, that you are completely valid. You didn’t deserve it.
coockie8: I’m sorry but saying “don’t write dark or taboo fiction or at least keep it private because it might trigger someone or someone might get off to it.” is exactly like saying “don’t talk about the abuse you suffered[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
the-real-seebs: flawlest: The scariest shit I see always comes from people who are quite confident that, being very loving, they could not be doing anything abusive.
myfandomrealitea: If you tell victims they need to be ashamed of how they cope with or heal from their trauma and that they need to be hidden and silent about it because you disagree with it or it makes you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
b3ne4iento: Why are people trying to defend r@pe, incest, and all that fucked up shit people been writing under the Leon tag? Why are y’all getting mad when people call you out on your disgusting writing? It’s so weird that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
wiisagi-maiingan: wiisagi-maiingan: Idle reminder that cyberstalking is bad and that if you’re following someone across social media for weeks or months to gather “evidence” to prove that they’re bad, then you should probably consider whether you’re actually the good guy[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
disasterpieces86: i remember one time someone tried to help me “”“recover”“” from identifying with a character who was an abuser (idfk man it made me feel better about the shit i went through) by saying “well why dont you identify[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
celtic-pyro: celtic-pyro: Gen Z is fucked because they don’t consider actions to be inherently evil but only evil within the context of people they deem “deserving” of punishment, so now everyone’s a psychopathic little busybody with a hero complex thinking[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
then maybe dont talk about your trauma on tumblr? there are other places where you can talk about such shit. no one wanna hear bout that here blackheartxbiohazards
It’s a really typical abuser trait to call the victim of their abuse “abusive” for responding to their abuse with anger. It’s victim blaming. You’re allowed to be mad at people who hurt you. You don’t have to show respect[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Absolutely. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Shockingly, nice people are kind and accepting of weird behaviors and like to have fun. It’s amazingly only controlling assholes who think it’s right to abuse people into obeying strict social norms. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Hey folks, pro-abuse bullying anon is back. Or another one like ’em. Come get your free thumps in since they love and value abuse so much. This guy wants to be the fun police? Show ’em how we treat cops.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It absolutely has the exact vibes. Like bullying anon what you are doing is perpetuating the cycle of abuse. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
hot take; saying someone “was groomed” and giving no other information about it gives me literally zero idea of what kind of abuse was actually done to the person. Which is totally okay if you don’t want to share your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
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It both surprises me and doesn’t surprise me. It surprises me that someone would say it out loud, but not that someone would hold that belief. Then again there are people who proudly say that you should beat your children[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💯💯💯💯 Someone else controlling your interests and behavior through fear is ABUSE. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Um, actually, I think you better pick up a comic book, anon because I’m pretty sure bullying turns you into a bitter but charismatic super villain. seriously though, take your pro-child abuse takes elsewhere. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
beaniebaneenie: headspace-hotel: littledeconstruction: jaywrites101: rogha: ravingsrandom: Holy fucking shit yeah I’d carry that one over too Stuff like this hit’s really close to home with me because I had an abusive paternal figure growing up. It’s easy for you to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
To all of us who need to hear it today: “they’re family” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. “they never hit me” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. You don’t have to like someone who violates your boundaries. Being nice to you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blackheart-biohazards: “motherhood and pregnancy aren’t comparable to drawn pedophilia or rape or incest, though, are they? @eerie-entityy do you realize that what you have just said is that you think that some people’s trauma and triggers are not as important[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“motherhood and pregnancy aren’t comparable to drawn pedophilia or rape or incest, though, are they? @eerie-entityy do you realize that what you have just said is that you think that some people’s trauma and triggers are not as important as[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…