sweaty-confetti: sweaty-confetti: if i have to see someone use the word “grooming” one more time in an incorrect way i’m going to start throwing things. like YES this person had an inappropriate relationship with this other person. YES this person[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
But its canon, not fanfiction that means that it’s totally morally pure and only there to show how bad and awful it is. Certainly not a nasty, dirty desire like all fanfiction absolutely always reflects. THE ABOVE IS SARCASM. Seriously[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blackheartbiohazards: Actually, friend, freedom of expression does mean that it’s okay to ship anything you want. It’s imaginary. It’s not real. ☝️ You’re not obligated as a writer to exclusively write about healthy, normal relationships and sane, moral actions. ☝️[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s only been the twice, plus the shadowban in november. 🤷🤷 This last time we got termed for talking about our experience as a victim of CSA :/
It’s deliberate antagonism and poisoning of spaces and I HATE it. So sorry that it’s affected you so much. :C Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
vague-humanoid: ALT View on Twitter Sex Ed Books Don’t “Groom” Kids and Teens. They Protect Them. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Oh my gosh…. D: Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
My friend, we have received so many messages that involve the term “grooming” lately I have no idea whether it was your message that we were reacting to or not V_V I am so sorry that you went through that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Our abusive IRL father was a child groomer. When we were young, he would repeatedly take in young teenage runaways, often who were addicted to drugs and alcohol, give them a place to stay in our home, and keep them[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
hot take; saying someone “was groomed” and giving no other information about it gives me literally zero idea of what kind of abuse was actually done to the person. Which is totally okay if you don’t want to share your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thanks for sharing your feelings and thoughts, anon. I’m sure there are a lot of people out there who feel the same as us right now about furaffinity’s policy change on this. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
speaking as someone who had a body that was perceived as “adult” while we were very much still children, and experienced sexual assault because of it– Yeah. All of this. context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Right? if you place the blame for assault on someone for being desirable, rather than placing the blame on the person who committed assault, what the hell are you doing?? context link Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
Yep! It’s the “she wouldn’t have been sexually assaulted if she didn’t look so desirable” argument in disguise. Source: xxblackheartbiohazardsxx
dagny-hashtaggart: nilkadnaquada: nilkadnaquada: nilkadnaquada: nilkadnaquada: nilkadnaquada: nilkadnaquada: Any plan for combating CSA is going to have to reckon with the fact that teenagers are often horny and feel a desire to explore and express their sexuality and if they don’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
anti-anti-otonokoji-twins: antis will simultaneously believe that proshippers are all Real Life Child Molesters and yet say “ex-proshippers” should be given support for “realizing” it was “wrong”… that’s cognitive dissonance at work
Shockingly enough: Being a pedophile is not actually a crime “condoning” pedophilia is not a crime pedophilia is not a synonym for child molestation, rape, or sexual assault. proshipper means fiction only; the term proship does not in any way[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
superantiship: Just because you like dubious consent/no consent it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. In fact, as a CSA survivor and as a person who was groomed by an adult when I was 15 to 17, I write that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dailyroastingppl: blackheart-biohazards: dailyroastingppl: “Antis only care abt fictional characters than real victims” If you post disgusting things online like pedophilia, incest or other bs then I think you’re the one who doesnt care about US. No DNI and this is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
blackheart-biohazards: If you follow us, and the most recent posts on your blog are threats of violence or murder to ANY group of people, yes you are going to get IMMEDIATELY blocked. We don’t fuck with that shit. You are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You cannot increase the agency of one group (children) by diminishing the agency of another group (adults). Censorship does not make children safer, because there is no safe authority to decide what is censored. Censorship takes away the tools of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s very funny that you think that. Mostly because we’re mostly attracted to middle aged men, and also are abuse victims. Get some sleep child, you’re cranky and having a tantrum.
marshemillow: Waaay too many people on the internet super highway these days will say things like, “You’re literally making child porn!!!” when what they really mean is that you drew fanart of a young-looking anime character.
cookie-crimes: Alright, I’ll answer in good faith here, because i really appreciate not picking a fight or an argument First off, please, don’t say , “you like proships” proship doesn’t mean “problematic ships”, it means “pro” (as in favor of)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: ratofautism: Proshippers when the cops break into their fucking house: “ But officer! the DNI goes both ways! 🙁 ” What part of being a proshipper do you believe is illegal? This post makes it sound like[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
coockie8: Man, just ‘cause you apparently act on every single impulsive thought you have doesn’t mean everyone does. Yes, fiction can affect reality, but my moral code isn’t so flimsy that a horror movie would make me murder, or something[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
That’s a whole mood, anon. As someone else who experienced child abuse, the idea of children coming to harm is absolutely repellent to me. I want to be clear that when I say something like “I hate children” what I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…