I am so dreadfully tired of all these “"antis”“ who think that it’s charming and noble to dictate to other people what stories they’re allowed to tell and how they are and are not allowed to play make believe. It’s[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
💌 I love you fans in weird fandoms. 💌 I love you shippers with weird ships. 💌 I love you self shippers with weird f/os. 💌 I love you writers of weird fics. 💌 I love you artists of weird[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
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♦ It’s good to write fiction and make art about queer characters. ♦ It’s good to write romantic fiction and make romantic art about queer characters. ♦ It’s good to write sexual fiction and make sexual art about queer characters.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for not bullying people over fiction 💞 Thank you for not being a jerk to people who write or draw things that you don’t like.
There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs. Abusers.
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It’s always okay to feel that something is: icky, gross, upsetting, disturbing, disgusting, repellant, triggering, nasty, weird, unsightly or in bad taste. What isn’t okay is: insulting that thing to it’s creators face, wishing violence on that thing’s creator and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I’m going to be real with you. I’m in the fandom that has a lot of actual 6000 year old dragon lolis in it. (Fire Emblem). And lots of people (outside anti communities) create lewd work of the 6000[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
On Tuesday, May 29, 2007, LJers – users of the then-popular blogging site Livejournal – woke up to find that their Friends lists were showing a large number of names that had been crossed out, or strikethrough ‘ed. It turned[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Except sometimes they DO call law enforcement! and the law enforcement says: stop sending us stuff about fiction, it takes our resources away from investigating actual real crime.
Take a look at this person who is saying the quiet part out loud. It’s not that they think proshippers cause harm, it’s that they’re weird. Not only does this person think that being weird is bad, they think you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The idea that there is something special and magical about sexual arousal and desire that takes away your willpower and good judgement is a lie made up by rapists to excuse rape.
❤️🔥 There is nothing special and bad about sex in fiction. ❤️🔥 Abusive, ‘nasty’, illegal, or taboo sex in fiction isn’t any worse than anything else bad in fiction. ❤️🔥Reading or writing about a type of sex in fiction will[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So like, you live in America, and in America it is specifically NOT illegal to draw child characters in sexual situations. (If you were in Canada you’d be on shakier legal ground.) Also like, are you cool siccing the cops[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Just a reminder: ♦ Any content that is not against Tumblr’s TOS is allowed in the ‘main tag’ of a relevant fandom. ♦ It is not your duty or right to police the content of tumblr’s tags beyond what breaks[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Proship” means you don’t believe people should be harassed, threatened or insulted for the fiction and art they create, even if you personally find what they’re making to be gross, upsetting or in some way immoral. “Proship” means you believe[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We got kicked out of a pathologic discord for sharing art of two sibling characters that somebody decided “looked shippy” and whipped up a witch hunt. So , I feel you anon. It sucks when intolerant people make spaces narrower[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What antis see when I’m shipping characters with a 10 year age gap:
Proship is a fandom term that means you don’t believe in harassing people who write fiction or create artwork that you don’t agree with. Basically “ship and let ship” and “don’t like, don’t read.” While this seems obvious to most[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It is so good to hear about people who have supportive friends, anon. We usually only hear people talk about the friends people feel like they have to hide from. I hope everybody who reads this has, or is soon[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🌟 It’s okay to make bad art. 🌟 It’s okay to make art in bad taste. 🌟 You have a right to make art that others consider to be of poor quality. 🌟 You have a right to make art[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We’ve lived through the worst of it. We had Something Awful threads and Encyclopedia Dramatica articles, etc, about us back in the day. We try to treat fancops, harassers and trolls online like we would any real world terrorist or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Optimistically, I think it’s shrinking. I feel like we’re getting less hate and seeing less anti garbage in the tags than even a few months ago.
“if you can’t say something nice, don’t say nothing at all.” – Thumper, from Bambi Wishing all fancops a very “I hope this fiction affects your reality”.
Me writing something that you are not forced to read is not me harassing you. Me writing something about trauma or abuse has nothing to do with your trauma and abuse. Me writing something that you don’t like is not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🌟 The golden rule: treat others as you would want them to treat you. In fandom terms: ship and let ship.
Lolisho content of a sexual nature is dubiously legal in the United States. Do you want to know why? Because all “pornography” is dubiously legal in the United States. The USA is a complex web of “Obscenity” laws which vary[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re not wrong, but every time you confront them with this fact they just start screaming about how “its different” and calling you a pedophile. V_V –🎀💖
♥ I love you fans with fluffy ships. ♥ I love you fans with canon ships. ♥ I love you fans with popular ships. ♥ I love you fans with rare ships. ♥ I love you fans with self ships.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Congratulations on making your fandom smaller, and less fun for yourself. 🫤
Imagine genuinely thinking that a person being hypothetically attracted to a fictional character portrayed as a drawing of a dog meant that the same person was certainly interested in physical sexual congress with a real, actual living canine. Last I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Shipcest fans who ship for fun: You are wonderful, valid and amazing. Shipcest fans who ship to come with the abuse by, isolation from, or loss of your own family: You are wonderful, valid and amazing. You are not broken.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“as long as you aren’t a weirdo.” antis say: just don’t be weird. antis say: as long as you aren’t abnormal. antis say: as long as you conform to my expectations. antis say: as long as you conform to society[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Proshippers are the ones with normal attitudes toward fiction. I don’t know how to explain to antis that they are not normal for getting themselves all twisted up and panicked about the moral lives of, and harm done to, fictional[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Right? it always seems like “be critical of your interests” is code for “you’re not allowed to have fun”.
i fucking hate proship/anti discourse because i feel like the fact that those words even exist is fucked up. it takes an issue (that people are drawing porn of underage characters and posting that shit on the internet) and turns[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
best thing a writer can do is make it clear that it’s not ok many ppl lack intelligence to part right from wrong so try and help them every author: tag your shit Somebody reblogged our post from the other[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“But what if a child sees this content?” This content is appropriate for, and within the rules of the platform that it was posted to. It is not my job to moderate the content of a site to a higher[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Tags are purely organizational. They are not a moderated community. Anything that is allowed on Tumblr is appropriate in the “main” tags of a topic.
Anon, I do support love, and kindness, and peace. That’s what being proship is all about. Writing fiction and drawing pictures hurts no one. And yet you, and antis who harass people, go around committing actual real emotional and psychological[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If seeing a character do a bad, harmful action in fiction makes you think that it’s okay to go that bad, harmful thing in reality, that is a problem with you, not a problem with the fiction or the writer.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thoughts are not the same as actions. Fiction does not lead people to commit crimes. Fiction does not exist to be your teacher or your parent. Not everything you enjoy in fiction is something you want to try in real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This is such an obvious bait ask, but I’m going to answer it anyway. Do I think “pedophilia” is “okay”? I understand that some people experience involuntary attractions, and I believe that those people deserve care and support to deal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey pal, thanks for writing in. Just want to make sure you know that you can be proship and still have things in fiction that make you uncomfortable and you wanna avoid. There are specific pairings and some general problematic[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This is so staggeringly sad in ways I can’t currently articulate.
Give me ships that are star-crossed! Doesn’t a ship being illegal make it more enticing? Doesn’t a ship being ‘immoral’ make the yearning sweeter? Isn’t a ship where the characters think they have to hide their love more romantic? Don’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
My personal best tip is to separate yourself from the people and places you think will harass you. Start a new, proship-aligned online identity, block anyone you think might run into and recognize you immediately, and just start posting and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
There is nothing wrong with enjoying: Queer ships Age gap ships Self insert ships Childhood friends to lovers Enemies to lovers Straight ships Ships with villains Shipcest Toxic or abusive ships Omegaverse Underage ships Adult x minor ships Any ships![…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Exactly, the problem is that people who hate things have learned that they can co-opt the language of morality and progressive politics in order to control people through shame. People might not listen to “you can’t ship that because I[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Its okay when *I* do things people might think are bad to cope but these OTHER people are degenerates.”
Yeah, people acting like characters are the ones with the agency, and not the authors is a significant problem all sides of discourse.
Ship and let ship! 👉 Hate and harassment make fandom a toxic place for everyone. 👉 Hate and harassment decreases overall participation in fandom; it doesn’t just chase away people you don’t like. 👉 Hate and harassment discourages everyone from[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✍️ Fiction does not equal morality. 🛑 Harassing others is never virtuous. 🏴☠️ Ship and let ship!
I very much understand a person not wanting to support speech that they feel is hate-speech (racist, transphobic, homophobic jokes), and it is true that stand up comedy/telling jokes is a little different than creating fiction. However, if you believe[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
📢 Moral and immoral are not immutable qualities everyone agrees on. 📢 You are not obligated to listen to people who tell you that the fiction you enjoy carries moral weight. 📢 Trying to dictate what type of fiction is[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Right? Who would have thought that acting like outraged 12 year olds throwing a tantrum wouldn’t get them taken seriously? And i mean they do call us proshitters, so given that they’re anti shitting I guess they’re holding a lot[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
When I write some fucked up fanfic: My answer when an anti sends me hate: My advice (replace movie with fanfic):
When people call a piece of fiction illegal, or immoral, what that usually means is that it disgusts them personally, or that it is generally in bad taste. ⚠️ Other people’s disgust is not your problem. ⚠️ You do not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You cannot increase the agency of one group (children) by diminishing the agency of another group (adults). Censorship does not make children safer, because there is no safe authority to decide what is censored. Censorship takes away the tools of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thinking about tropes, and comfort, and self care, and squicks and triggers and blocking this morning, and how different they are for everyone. What’s comforting to one person, might be a squick or trigger to someone else, and vice versa.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Do you realize that whatever we fantasize about matters to God? He is intimately aware and involved in our spiritual development. As Christians, it is critical that we censor our imaginations, because wrong thoughts can easily become wrong attitudes that[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
To me this sounds like a case of the reader interpreting the text in a way other than the interpretation that the original author intended. Which is always totally fine. The author is “dead” after all. This is exactly the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Children who deliberately violate their own boundaries and then cry that someone should have stopped them from being able to do so don’t get any sympathy from me. It’s like, do you want agency, or not? Why do you want[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
No problem, pal. 😾🔪 here, it was my post specifically, so here’s the context. (I’ll try not to ramble). personal irl background: IRL in this lifetime, I/we were raised in a household where our father had significant paranoid delusions, primarily[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
“Pretentious”. You mean we actually type full sentences, use paragraphs and punctuation? And spell check? Also, we’re the boring ones? Ya’ll can’t handle spicy fanfic. To my knowledge, Reddit doesn’t show you things you haven’t interacted with unless you’re on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
They don’t want to take responsibility for their words and actions. Honestly, when you think about it, that’s kind of antis whole deal, denying that people are responsible for their actions. That’s why they blame fiction for programming people to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Good morning to all my fellow weird, nasty, gross, creepy shippers! 🤝 Today is another great day to continue enjoying ourselves while being strange and off-putting! ❤️
Bless your heart, child, can you string together a coherent sentence to save your life? What is this even in reference t– Oh! Oh you’re the little monster who told @proshipperstims you hoped their parents abused them! You vile little[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Shout-out to my fellow freaks, weirdos and sickos on tumblr. 🫶 ❤️ Proship freaks are cool! ❤️ Self ship weirdos are amazing! ❤️ Fandom sickos are the best!
You can be disgusted by something without that thing being immoral or evil. You can be disgusted by something without attacking, insulting, or harassing the people who are doing the thing that disgusts you. Disgust does not determine morality. Attacking[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey fellow proships, please report any (supposed) minors you see co-opting the proship tag to solicit sexual contact with adults. We all know these are likely antis or rpers in poor taste but no matter what they are, they’re not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Dear antis: You can’t see into a writer’s mind, and you can’t know the intentions they had when writing something unless they state their intentions directly. When you read something and you feel like it is glamorizing, glorifying, or promoting[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
🌺 Proshippers who create art are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers who write are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers who make edits, moodboards and graphics are amazing. 🌺 Proshippers who enjoy and share the creative works of others are amazing! 🌺 Proshippers are amazing!
Proship Misconceptions 🚫 Misconception: A “proship” is a ship that involves problematic content. 👍 Reality: Proship means supporting the rights of people to ship what they want. “Proship” is a label for the person doing the shipping, not for a[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
well now I’m curious what post you saw. But yeah that’s absolutely true. When you start bulling and harassing people that’s not okay for any reason.
It depends on the anti you run into. Some antis consider any age gap, even between adults to be problematic. Some antis who ship adult characters with age gaps are shocked to find out that those other antis exist, when[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
If i write something violent, and someone unrelated to me reads my fiction, and then goes and violently assaults someone, that’s not my fault or responsibility. If I write something sexual, and someone unrelated to me reads my fiction and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What is triggering content? We talk a lot about how antis don’t seem to understand that the things that make them upset are comforting to some people, and the things that are comforting to them are upsetting and traumatic to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Man, I love boss x worker, and not just because one of my f/os is my boss :p Boss x worker has a different vibe than teacher x student. It can still be very coercive but there’s that adult edge[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I love ships that are tormented, I love ships that are impossible, I love ships that are star-crossed, I love ships that ache, I love ships that try to hate each other, I love ships that try to hurt each[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Tags are for organizational purposes. Tags are not communities. If people don’t tag their problematic content with the main fandom tags, then it not only becomes unsearchable, it also becomes unfilterable. What if I hate undertale, and I don’t want[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Its another antiship strawman argument. They invent proshipper boogeymen that aren’t real, to fight against.
LOL what was I *just* saying? Half the antis out there are shocked that the other half considers them filthy proships.
This is actually a really fun topic because about half of the antis out there ARE against anything explicitly sexual, horny, kinky etc, and half of the antis are shocked to find out that these other antis exist. Of course,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
To all creators who have received hateful messages: 📝 Creating dark or problematic art and fiction does not mean you deserve to be harassed, insulted, sent death threats, accused of crimes, or suicide baited. 📝 Your creative works are not[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✨Do not allow anyone to guilt or shame you out of creating the art or writing that moves you, speaks to you, or brings you joy.✨
I’m seeing a lot of antis badmouthing proshippers right now, so here’s a reminder! 💖 Proshippers are creative! 💖 Proshippers are kind! 💖 Proshippers don’t send hate! 💖 Proshippers ship and let ship!
I am seeing it more and more frequently. People want to have their problematic content but still tell everyone that they think proshippers are icky. Its…. frustrating. Its all because antis have twisted the meaning of proship so that people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Seeing so many posts and meta-posts about how people don’t know what proship means (ie. posts about “not proship but a secret third thing” etc) I am starting to wonder something. Would it be prudent to retire “proship”? No one[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I see two possibilities: Possibility A: they care about the feelings of fictional characters who they can control more than the feelings of real people with their own ideas. Possibility B: Misogyny and transphobia since the majority of fandom participation[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Reminder: ✨ Shipping something doesn’t mean you think a relationship between those characters is healthy, desirable or ideal. It just means you want to see content of it for any reason. ✨ Being proship does not mean you support or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
✨This user believes in freedom of expression through fiction and artwork.✨