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honorarycassowary: roach-works: yaoist: yaoist: yaoist: i cannot possibly overstate the psychological damage of growing up being abused in a way that is considered so disgusting as to be literally unspeakable and treated as such. every single person on this website[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I experience abuse and neglect I disconnect emotionally from the human race I acquire phenomenal power I declare myself a god I have to be put down like a rabid dog. darkheart-despairs
The cycle of villainy I experience abuse and neglect I disconnect emotionally from the human race I acquire phenomenal power I declare myself a god I have to be put down like a rabid dog.
langernameohnebedeutung: I mean, obviously House is a horrible boss but at least he’s an equal opportunities horrible boss. Most horrible bosses will treat you like shit but THEN talk to you about “disrespect” when you try to stand up for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
langernameohnebedeutung: I mean, obviously House is a horrible boss but at least he’s an equal opportunities horrible boss. Most horrible bosses will treat you like shit but THEN talk to you about “disrespect” when you try to stand up for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that happened to you. I was really hesitant to join the self ship community when I learned about it last year, because at the time, my most intense f/o was a high school student (Mukuro)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
There is a word for people who demand that you cater to their comfort and needs while disregarding your comfort and needs. Abusers.
weaselle: gwydionmisha: recovering-catholic: portraitoftheoddity: respected-demon: aphony-cree: sonicrainbooms: bloodyl1ps: this post hasn’t left my mind since i’ve first saw it people jest but this is literally how i worked out i was gaslit for like 15 years of my life People[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi, anon. I understand that you’re going through a lot right now. The world is unfair, and it feels like there is very little in your life that you can actually control. I understand that lashing out, and saying cruel[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
benpaddon: ivebeenonthissitetoolong: thememedaddy: Last year, I was talking with my mom about parenting and she said “well at least I never made you feel like I didn’t love you” I proceeded to tell her about a time when I was[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
plasticterrarium: Alison Bechdel wrote this book and chose violence
average25jifan: “proshitters DNI your f/os all hate you” this feels super malicious…like they’re TRYING to give people a mental breakdown. They are, and they feel justified in doing so. In their minds they are punishing people, who they perceive to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for sharing your experience, anon. We’re all really glad to know that there are spiritually oriented systems like us out there too. Fancops/antis in general have a very back and white mentality and a lack of nuance in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
black-rabbit-fiction: crunchybutter: People who are antiship do more harm to abuse victims then proshiper ever will. And that’s saying something because I don’t even like prohipers or there content. But at least they don’t go out of there way to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
traumasurvivors: The abuse they put you through wasn’t okay. But it’s okay if you have complicated feelings about it.
tiredasdbitch: Kink is not responsible for the existence of abusive men. Neither is “problematic!” fiction. Maybe hold abusers accountable for their own actions instead of blaming other things
elian-eldari: homunculus-argument: Was talking with my therapist about how it’s possible to completely lose one’s own identity to people-pleasing – when you grow up being constantly preoccupied with concerns about what other people want, and the ideal outcome is always[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
queershakespeare: queershakespeare: OOF (original text from article by devon price) YIKES
Honestly, thanks for yelling, and I’m glad you feel comfortable to yell here. This kind of shit is exactly what fancops are missing when they try to shut down and censor fiction, assuming that they know why and by whom[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
dead-pidove-do-not-eat: Wow I really spit, when I emotionally spiral. This is a journal entry from last night, edited for clarity and to not point fingers at specific people, but at ideology. I was really angry. And I try not to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
fictional-loverboy: Villain f/os being sweet and soft towards you is great and all, but what about those villain f/os who you know would hurt you? CW: dark, abusive The ones who do experiments on you telling you “its for your[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
kawaii-pigeon: blackheart-biohazards: profictiontheatre: PSA to antis: The people in your life don’t have to “vet” the fanfiction you jerk off to. I don’t know why there’s this weird obsession with if your family would “approve” Adults don’t talk like that.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This would be so funny if it wasn’t so sad and hypocritical. “does writing about murder and fighting mean you support it? no” But writing about sex does???
I wish we couldn’t basically say the same thing, anon. Sending you love and fond thoughts. We’re all in this together. And if you don’t mind a silly meme:
sepiascissors: floating-goblin-deactivated2021: the unholy trinity of piss-poor caretakers, tag yourself: tomboy, meaning “this child is clearly queer but let’s hope it goes away” sensitive, meaning “clearly neurodivergent and often distressed but let’s keep going until they grow numb” mature, meaning[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
vicdraws: this is based off a post by @absentlyabbie It got me through last years holidays, and i hope it helps you too. Hold on.
lostlittlelorelei: blackheart-biohazards: Speaking exclusively with regard to US law: I, an adult, am legally allowed to write whatever I damn well please. If I write sexual content, you, a child, are not legally allowed to look at it. Therefore my[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
marshemillow: blackheart-biohazards: This is so staggeringly sad in ways I can’t currently articulate. “Yeah it’s totally okay to write to cope as long as you isolate yourself from everyone else and internalize everything and never seek validation from other victims!!!”[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
demongender-vibes: demongender-vibes: just-antithings: hypocrisy is the lifeblood of antis and it’s doubly wild cuz in canon he’s a straight up pedophile. a pro contact pedophile too and it’s part fo why he killed the kids he killed. but then antis[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This is so staggeringly sad in ways I can’t currently articulate.
slutdge: if youre trans and getting misgendered/deadnamed by your family during holiday gatherings im giving you a hug over the internet rn
beep-beep-im-asleep: blackheart-biohazards: To all of us who need to hear it today: “they’re family” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. “they never hit me” doesn’t mean it isn’t abuse. You don’t have to like someone who violates your boundaries. Being nice[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
craycraybluejay: allshipsareok: This applies to reading/writing fiction about your trauma too. Truly nothing like it. The narrative can’t doom me if I rewrite it babyyyy
kawaii-pigeon: “my abuser used x!” “my abuser used y!” “my abuser-” Shut up and think about what you’re saying. You are saying your abuser abused you using something. Your ABUSER did that. Not whatever shiny sticker, fanfic, story or what[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have seen a lot of antis use their issues as an excuse to abuse and control others, unfortunately. That’s what it always comes down to with antishipping; the desire to control the thoughts and actions of the people around[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
vergess: anti-anti-otonokoji-twins: proship-luigi: Look, I know and appreciate that there are many paedophiles who are content with fiction and don’t groom or abuse real children or even look at/own real CSAM/CSEM. I’m sorry this topic is tricky and you are[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
antishipping: sl-ug: I kinda want to remind everyone that the term “MAP” as in “minor-attracted person” was created as a psyop on 4chan by radical right-wingers in order to make the LGBTQ+ community look bad It surprises me that people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
antishipping: noticing how some fanpol sound exactly like abusers when you call them out for all these vile acts they do. “maybe don’t fucking post about your disgusting ships online and there wouldn’t be any problems” is like abusive people[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thanks for taking the time to share your story, anon. Honestly, the sad thing is stuff like this happens all the time. Glad you got out of the toxic anti soup.
It’s absolutely spiteful and dismissive; and not far out of step with the other behavior we see out of antis. Basically, if an anti doesn’t like you, your trauma and your identity don’t matter to them, and are free game[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Sweetie, can your read? We’ve been married for a decade to our fellow freak @megaphonegirlk. We have pronably been together longer than you have been alive.
Bless your heart, child, can you string together a coherent sentence to save your life? What is this even in reference t– Oh! Oh you’re the little monster who told @proshipperstims you hoped their parents abused them! You vile little[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
proshipperstims: Yea well no, seeing as it’s my property that I paid for with my own money and I no longer live with them thus their house, their rules is zilch. Haven’t for years now so that’s be really weird[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Saw a post about ‘your F/O will never hurt you’. So this is for self shippers (like me) with violent, sadistic, mentally ill, rival or villainous F/Os who do want to hurt them. (this post is about fictional relationships only)[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The cycle of abuse I experience abuse and neglect I disconnect emotionally from the human race I acquire phenomenal power I declare myself a god I have to be put down like a rabid dog.
Don’t suicide bait people, I don’t care who they are. Don’t suicide bait people. Get out of the proship tag with your suicide bait posts. NEVER TELL SOMEONE SUICIDE IS THE ANSWER WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU.
paperclipbracelet: feltired: People talk about abusers who never say ‘i love you’ but i wish they talked more about the ones that do. The ones that hurt you over and over and leave you ruined and confused because afterwards they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey anon, it’s Harry. Thanks for sharing this with me. Honestly I can relate, personally, because I also prefer to write my own fucked up ships as sweet and happy. I enjoy a lot of shipcest, and I am ONLY[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
proship-luigi: Antis: “Seeing triggering media can scar a person so badly they never, ever go on the internet again! You’ve robbed them of their only coping mechanism! You should feel awful for making somebody not want to come online any[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It could be an angry proshipper but the fact that it’s got literally 3 posts on the brand new blog, and decided to make one of those three posts encouraging harassment makes me feel like it’s just plain bait.
Digging further into the latest drama– the “"proshipper”“ we’ve all been clowning on for encouraging harassment appears to be a troll/bait account. So basically it’s antis or other shit stirrers trying to bait proshippers into behaving like assholes. Pretty funny[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
antishipping: blackheart-biohazards: things-antis-say: We get so frustrated when we see posts like this from proshippers. The whole POINT is that NOBODY deserves to be bullied or harassed. by like, 80% of proshipper standards, harassing or suicide-baiting antis literally defeats the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
things-antis-say: We get so frustrated when we see posts like this from proshippers. The whole POINT is that NOBODY deserves to be bullied or harassed.
degradationbabie: why am i not being drugged and abused rn
thaenad: Let’s talk about objectification. How many times have you heard the statement “If you’re into ___, you’re objectifying ___ people” ? Objectification is a very real problem. and yes, it is especially present in kink and fetish spaces. But[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
sidsinning: My girl Cinderella never once looked to be saved by a man, never once dreamed of a prince coming to rescue her. (It ain’t wrong to want a prince to save you but having that trope be part of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
@things-antis-say thought you might want to see this dumb bs.
: lets passionately make out with the blood of your abusers on our clothes
antishipping: with the trend of antis reporting and encouraging to report fictional content to cybertip and similar services, let me just say as a csa survivor myself, this fucking sickens me to extreme levels. call it exaggeration all you want,[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yep, that’s antis alright. 😔
delusion-of-negation: chaos-event-horizon: “HEY YOU! ASEXUAL HOMO-ROMANTIC TRANS PERSON! STOP PRETENDING TO BE QUEER!” K. Also… Did you just imply to a CSA survivor that thinking a fictional character is hot, is just as bad as rape? Like… With your entire[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
delusion-of-negation: chaos-event-horizon: They’re doing it because it isn’t Progressive anymore to inform someone they’re going to burn in hell. They want the serotonin high of being Morally Pure And Going To Heaven, without the backlash. Going to therapy is still[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re not anyone’s therapist, you are not more educated than the therapists who have said publicly and been harassed for saying that survivors processing their trauma this way is normal and not unhealthy. why do you want to call the[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
haha, toko was so lonely and abused and ugly and smelly and hatable the only friend she had was a bug. haha oh that’s so pathetic and funny. haha i should ask him about the fucking bug even though bugs[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The game exaggerates it quite a bit for comedic effect. We never had a specific bug we was obsessed with or something, but we were so lonely for a while that we, yes, would name insects and pests that lived[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…