kawaii-pigeon:

“my abuser used x!”

“my abuser used y!”

“my abuser-”

Shut up and think about what you’re saying. You are saying your abuser abused you using something.

Your ABUSER did that. Not whatever shiny sticker, fanfic, story or what have you.

THEY did that TO YOU. Not the person writing the fic. The person writing the fic doesnt even know you exsist.

Don’t blame somebody else for some assholes behavior. Dont say “well if x didnt exsist they couldnt have abused me”

They would have, they’d just have used a different means to do so.