“wait, weren’t we working on something else?” “Yeah, the a whole novel. They outlined and started working on it a couple of days ago.” “then why did I completely forget that it existed?” “because the person who started working on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Be as kind to and patient with your system mates as possible. Living together in one body is like living together in one house, everybody has to make sacrifices, and treat one another with respect the best they can, or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
There are either 23 or 25 sinister system members depending on how you count. Toko (😼🔪), Hal, Trevor (🔫🍳) and Kirigiri (🔍⚔️) we’re the first members awake in the body. Despite Toko and Hal being the main fronters for years[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some random Sinister System history trivia There are either 23 or 25 sinister system members depending on how you count. Toko (πΌπͺ), Hal, Trevor (π«π³) and Kirigiri (πβοΈ) weβre the first members awake in the body. Despite Toko and Hal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
One of the worst things about exotrauma, is that having a traumatic memory of an event can cause you to fixate on that moment in time and it’s consequences. It can make you unable to remember the ways things got[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
One of the worst things about exotrauma, is that having a traumatic memory of an event can cause you to fixate on that moment in time and itβs consequences. It can make you unable to remember the ways things got[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
endo-memes: darkheart-despairs https://ift.tt/KaTrgDH
Yeah, honestly pal, all the fucking time. We tend to avoid mirrors a lot because of how deeply the body’s reflection can fuck with our heads sometimes. darkheart-despairs
I don’t know how much this helps, but here is something that we remind ourselves regarding self and delusion. Being plural and being singlet are both completely internal experiences with no method of outside verification. There is in fact no[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Yeah, honestly pal, all the fucking time. We tend to avoid mirrors a lot because of how deeply the body’s reflection can fuck with our heads sometimes.
I don’t know how much this helps, but here is something that we remind ourselves regarding self and delusion. Being plural and being singlet are both completely internal experiences with no method of outside verification. There is in fact no[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The same way you work up the courage to swim in cold water. Either by taking it one, slow, difficult step at a time. Or by jumping right in all at once. Sending you good vibes, one system to another.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
The same way you work up the courage to swim in cold water. Either by taking it one, slow, difficult step at a time. Or by jumping right in all at once. Sending you good vibes, one system to another.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Many systems have system names, but not all. I think it is more common for systems who frequently interact as systems in social media spaces to have names, because it makes us easier to refer to as a collective, Source:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I think the single worst thing that can happen to you as a fictionkin/fictive is when canon gives you a trait that is quite clearly meant to be a joke at the audience’s expense. And ordinarily you should be able[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Guilty as charged– absolutely can’t stand Junko at all. Hate her and everything she stands for on a very personal level. XD context note: our hatred of Junko is based on our interpretation of the source media, and our own[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Dating for systems is based on body age and your comfort. If your body is technically “of age” to be dating, but you “feel” too young for it and it makes you uncomfortable, you are allowed to be uncomfortable and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
problemaddtic: t0byshyperfixs: We are not one to get into syscourse and this will probably be deleted later but y’all cannot say “endos steal from us endos bad 🤬🤬🤬” then go on to do the exact same thing you claim endos[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I have actually never even heard that argument that “only systems can use the singular we”! I mean it’s called the “royal we” for a reason! 🤣 Anybody who wants to use “we/us” can do so! Source: xxharryosbornxx
We don’t have any alters, anon, but we do have angry system members. I’m one of them. Anger is like fire. When fire is controlled, we can use it constructively. We cook our food with it, warm our houses with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What do you mean “clinical”? Do you mean it’s language used by diagnosed DID systems, or is it like transmeds who use weird language to gatekeep who’s “really” trans? Both. It is language that is generally only used by plurals[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s our personal belief, and the belief of many on the greater plural community, that plurality can manifest, awaken, or be discovered at any age. Clinical purists of the “model of structural dissociation” often dispute this, but they aren’t even[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi anon! This question isn’t rude, though it is a little invasive. We don’t mind though, and are happy to answer you. Due to our specific experience of child abuse, followed by our experience of poverty through you adulthood in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi anon! Thanks for the question! β¦οΈ First off (and we will probably add this to our bio) “alter” is a strictly clinical term that applies specifically to members of a DID system or other plural system under a clinical[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It sounds like you’re on a journey of self discovery, and we are here for you! Here are some resources that might help you sort things out. our post from the other day about contacting headmates. fictionkin.org: a resource for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, I am so sorry that your former friends abused your trust, isolated, exiled, and fakeclaimed you. You did not do anything to deserve that treatment. I hope you will listen to me when I say this to you. If[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We do have one. Parts of it are fairly amorphous but there are large parts that are consistently structured. The ‘front’ is a separate area from the full inner world in back. The front is a large, circular room with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Your best bet is to just keep trying to initiate contact and conversation, even if you don’t feel like you’re getting a response. When you’re picking something to eat, ask for someone else’s input. When you’re watching something, ask what[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hi anon! Thank you for sharing all this with us, it sounds like you have a lot on your mind and are going through a tough time. It also sounds like you should definitely look further into plurality– I wouldn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, it is possible to be plural without having DID or OSDD. DID and OSDD are disorders that cause plurality, but they are not the only causes of plurality, it can stem from many different sources, both psychological and spiritual.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
really… process it, I guess? Or like I don’t see it happening, if that makes sense? I’m vaguely aware that it did, but just… wasn’t a part of it, I guess? Or, sometimes I find myself questioning if I actually[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey, pal. Trauma isn’t the only thing that can cause a system to form. There are many other reasons, both psychological and otherwise. But also, you should know that when a system does form from trauma, it is often forms[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some random Sinister System history trivia There are either 23 or 25 sinister system members depending on how you count. Toko (πΌπͺ), Hal, Trevor (π«π³) and Kirigiri (πβοΈ) we’re the first members awake in the body. Despite Toko and Hal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
my fellow members of systems, any of ya’ll ever look around at your super fucking cool system members, and then look at yourself and think, ‘i’m just some guy, how the hell did I end up with all these over[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
One of the worst things about exotrauma, is that having a traumatic memory of an event can cause you to fixate on that moment in time and it’s consequences. It can make you unable to remember the ways things got[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s absolutely spiteful and dismissive; and not far out of step with the other behavior we see out of antis. Basically, if an anti doesn’t like you, your trauma and your identity don’t matter to them, and are free game[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
thelunastusco: Hi, an βendogenicβ refresher course, right here! 1. We introduced the term βendogenicβ into the community August 2014, along with some other terms! It was in response to exclusionists (wrongly) complaining about βsystems without DIDβ using βtheir wordsβ. It[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
That plurality moment when they ask for your name for a fast food order, and you know you hesitated a second too long deciding which name to give.
dreamlandsystem: Things that I deal with as an osddid system: – feeling like a stranger in my life and my own body – not recognizing my surroundings, my friends, or my face in the mirror – having no agency or[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
syscourse is short for system discourse; discourse about/between plural systems. Anti endo means “anti endogenic” and is sometimes called sysmed (like transmed). Anti endos believe that dissociative identity disorder is the only cause of plurality, and that anyone who claims[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Proship fictionkin, fictives and introjects are amazing! π We understand that the fiction other people write doesn’t cause harm even when it’s about our source or your kintype; it doesn’t effect our identity or kin experiences. π It is perfectly[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…