I’m so glad to help, and like I said, I really hope your system member enjoys the F/O community! Just remember, when a fictive system member or a fictionkin F/Os someone from their source who is no longer someone they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thank you for clarifying! Your system member can (and should, if he wants to) absolutely call his crush from his source his F/O and treat them like an F/O in the community. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey! Thanks for the message! <3 I’ll try to help. So, let’s see– you said that the F/O (we’ll use that term for now) does not exist in your system, and you don’t personally know anyone with that character in[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, the advice I give you depends strongly on an important factor. Are your F/Os system members, soulbonds, or other real, people with agency of their own that you share your internal experience with in some way? or are they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What do you mean “clinical”? Do you mean it’s language used by diagnosed DID systems, or is it like transmeds who use weird language to gatekeep who’s “really” trans? Both. It is language that is generally only used by plurals[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s our personal belief, and the belief of many on the greater plural community, that plurality can manifest, awaken, or be discovered at any age. Clinical purists of the “model of structural dissociation” often dispute this, but they aren’t even[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We don’t participate in the DID/OSDD community, because we don’t have DID or OSDD and as a pro-endo mixed origin system we are largely unwelcome in these spaces in general. We find that pro-endo and origin ambivalent plurals are much[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Your best bet is to just keep trying to initiate contact and conversation, even if you don’t feel like you’re getting a response. When you’re picking something to eat, ask for someone else’s input. When you’re watching something, ask what[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, it is possible to be plural without having DID or OSDD. DID and OSDD are disorders that cause plurality, but they are not the only causes of plurality, it can stem from many different sources, both psychological and spiritual.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
my fellow members of systems, any of ya’ll ever look around at your super fucking cool system members, and then look at yourself and think, ‘i’m just some guy, how the hell did I end up with all these over[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
That plurality moment when they ask for your name for a fast food order, and you know you hesitated a second too long deciding which name to give.
Proship fictionkin, fictives and introjects are amazing! π We understand that the fiction other people write doesn’t cause harm even when it’s about our source or your kintype; it doesn’t effect our identity or kin experiences. π It is perfectly[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…