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๐ด๐ด๐ดWelcome to Summertime Ship/Self Ship bingo! โฑ๏ธโฑ๏ธโฑ๏ธ (Where the rules are made up and the points don’t matter!) How to use these prompts: Any way you want! You can choose to do some or all of them, or you can[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You are the one who knows your F/O best, no matter what. Even if you and another self shipper share a character, you know your F/O the best and they know theirs the best. When it comes specifically to self[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I’m so glad, anon! It seems there are more of us out there than expected! I’m definitely going to keep writing many more pursuer pov imagines in the very near future!
Self shippers, do you ever touch, pet, hug etc your own body as affection to or from your F/O? plural system & and yes do this plural system & no don’t do this not plural & do this not plural[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Your F/O is always there for you whenever you have any kind of mental crash and need someone to hold you through it, or shake you out of it.
F/O stands for “Fictional Other”, like “significant other” can be used to refer to a person you are dating, married to, etc. It is generally used as a noun. Self Ship is generally used as a verb. It means doing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
It’s normal on this blog, anon. You’re in good company!
I really love the f/o community and the whump community because they’re places where we can all vibe together on the same kinds of themes and elements and share posts and ideas etc, while all having wildly different fandoms and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
How do we personally decide, or how does a self shipper decide? I suspect that every self shipper decides this question differently, and I can imagine a few different possibilities, from the strict to the loose. have done is anything[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, that is absolutely and totally okay. I would go so far as to say that that is the typical experience that people who are not plural and not fictionkin have with their F/O. Knowing that a character isn’t real[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Well, this is an easy question for us to answer because almost all of Sinister System’s F/Os are either in our system, or in our partner system! When that’s the case, F/O posting becomes a sort of game we play[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Shout out to all of us self shippers who enjoy an absolutely toxic, fucked up relationship with our F/Os. Let those rancid vibes wash over you. ๐
Your F/O thinks loving thoughts and daydreams about you when you aren’t around.
๐ Your F/O loves you even when you don’t love yourself. ๐ Your F/O loves you even if you feel unlovable. ๐ Your F/O loves you even if you don’t think you’re worthy of it. ๐ Your F/O loves you[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
๐ Your F/O loves you no matter what. ๐ Your F/O loves you no matter what other people say. ๐ No one but you and your F/O can decide how your F/O feels about you. ๐ Nobody knows your F/O[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Ahhhhh!!! big F/Os are the best!! they are so wonderful ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ F/Os with big, round bellies ๐ F/Os with soft, thick jiggly thighs ๐ F/Os with big, chubby, thick padded hands ๐ F/Os with gorgeous round faces and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
In general I prefer to ship myself with a f/o who is romantically forceful or romantically aggressive. an f/o who is romantically shy, or romantically accommodating. an f/o who is neither particularly shy nor particularly forceful. See Results
self ship imagines I would appreciate seeing hornier/more spicy ones. I would not appreciate hornier/spicier ones. See Results
I *primarily* ship my F/Os with myself as I am. an OC/self-insert that I consider strongly based on me. an OC/self-insert that I consider only loosely based on me. a canonical character from the source material who is my kintype.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Pick your favorite for your self ship(s): friends to lovers enemies to lovers love at first sight See Results
My best advice is mostly the same for getting into any section of online fandom– post what you love, and block what you hate. if there are vocal people who are nasty or just uncomfortable to be around, just block[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
My best advice is mostly the same for getting into any section of online fandom– post what you love, and block what you hate. if there are vocal people who are nasty or just uncomfortable to be around, just block[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me Now by Meatloaf You Belong to Me Bioshock Infinite Heaven’s Divide Metal[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Songs to reunite with your F/O to (or for your OTP reuniting) Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So you want to slowdance with your F/O… Here are some classic (and one modern) songs to slow dance to with your F/O. Links are youtube links! La Vie En Rose- Edith Piaf (1947) Can’t Help Falling In Love- Elvis[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So you want to slowdance with your F/Oโฆ Here are some classic (and one modern) songs to slow dance to with your F/O. Links are youtube links! La Vie En Rose- Edith Piaf (1947) Canโt Help Falling In Love- Elvis[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
So with the new TOS does that include self ship posts for anime characters that are technically minors but donโt look it since a lot of my moots and I ship with characters from JJBA? They would still technically fall[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
gentle warning to the self ship community: if you are under the age of 18 and self ship with an adult character, any suggestive fic or art you create between yourself and your F/O could seriously and legitimately be considered[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Anon, the advice I give you depends strongly on an important factor. Are your F/Os system members, soulbonds, or other real, people with agency of their own that you share your internal experience with in some way? or are they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Hey @ikillproshippers has reposted this imagine of mine without permission. It would be a huge favor to me if you could block and report them, and maybe like and reblog the original post of mine!
All self ships are great. โจ All self shippers are great. โจ It’s great to be a self shipper. Your f/os love you no matter what. โค๏ธ๐๐
One of my most defining self shipping moments happened when I was in senior year of high school in 2004. I had picture of Alfred Molina as Doc Ock from the then-upcoming Spider-Man 2 movie pasted on the front of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I think this post our Jasmine made the other day is a pretty good intro to the kinds of things people do! There’s no guide tho, you just do what makes you happy! And you can totally ship yourself with[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Some ideas for ways to celebrate your relationship with your F/O ๐ Curation based Hoard pictures of your F/O on social media, a website, or saved on your harddrive.ย Print out pictures of your F/O and create a shrine for[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I don’t think it’s discrediting at all, anon, every relationship is different, and has different boundaries, and that counts for F/O relationships too! We’re all very poly here and also fictionkin, so there are only a few ships involving our[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Oh gosh, anon. That isn’t something we really have experience with, but it super does suck… My best advice would be to either a) avoid the source material as much as you can, and just enjoy your F/O outside of[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
๐ Self shipping is an expression of love! ๐ Self shipping is joyful and positive! ๐ Let’s share our support for self shippers!
They don’t have long to wait!!
I love fanfiction, because I can imagine a world in which you held me close.
I guess if anybody wants to give me $100 to get a self ship forum/message board started as described in this post I can have it ready by the weekend. I can also do it for free but we wouldn’t[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Thinking about how small the active self ship/ f/o community is. If we imagined the current community on the old web, we could easily all be sharing the same busy, active message board, with an irc chat and a dozen[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Getting a new fictional crush, like– I am very F/Ond of them. ๐
Songs to reunite with your F/O to (or for your OTP reuniting) Songs to reunite after a breakup, or other time apart. Links are to youtube. Someday out of the Blue by Elton John Its All Coming Back To Me[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
I am casting spell of kissie kissie kissie at all my F/Os! ๐๐ฅฐ
So you want to slowdance with your F/O… Here are some classic (and one modern) songs to slow dance to with your F/O. Links are youtube links! La Vie En Rose- Edith Piaf (1947) Can’t Help Falling In Love- Elvis[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
F/O Fuck, Marry, Kill New self ship game, “fuck, marry, kill” but it’s different than the usual game. Send the person sharing this an ask with one of their F/Os and the either the word “fuck”, “marry” or “kill”. Fuck:[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Villainous F/O ask game Get emojis in your inbox to talk about your villainous F/O ๐ Why is your F/O considered a villain? Do they consider themselves a villain? ๐ช What are your F/Oโs goals in terms of their acts[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Send a โ and one of my ships or F/Os to my inbox and I’ll post a random winter or holiday headcanon, scene or idea about them!
“In this Essay I Will…” Ship & Self Ship asks Select any number of questions to answer, or get emojis in your ask box to assign you homework ๐ (These are just for fun; no need to get too long[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
This blog is going to be a year old next month. I, Toko (๐ผ๐ช) started the blog when I wanted to get the self shipping community. Self shipping, and self inserts–before they had a separate community, and then were just[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Self ship prohibition/noir era AU Asks Get emoji asks in your inbox, or answer any questions you feel like. ๐ซ Are F/O and S/I lawmen or crooks, or something else? Are they on the same side? ๐ What are F/O[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
We might not be the best people to ask, because we actually avoid those kind of events. Specifically because our f/os are all either in-system or in our partner system it’s weird and uncomfortable for us to have people writing[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Silly & Random F/O Asks Some unusual or silly questions to answer about your F/Os. Get emoji in your inbox for questions to answer, or just answer any you want. ๐งธ Pick out a plushie to give to your F/O.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Results of the informal poll are in ๐ self shippers with creepy f/os largely love to get creeped on ๐๐ฅฐ hell yeah.
Self shippers with killer f/os (etc), would you enjoy it if your f/o menaced you or got rough with you, or do you prefer it for them keep their creepy side directed at others and be only sweet with you?
Allow me to reassure you: liking fiction that’s by a bad person, even if it’s a really bad person, does not make YOU a bad person. You can enjoy a piece of fiction without supporting the author or their ideals.[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
You’re at Dennys or another all night diner at 2 or 3 in the morning with your F/O. Why are you there, how exhausted are you , and what are you and your F/O ordering?
Your F/O is so squishy and swoony for you, even if they don’t show it on the outside.
Reblog and share what pet names your F/O has for you. Mine calls me his hound, and ‘bright eyes’.
@phantommiria974 I’m so glad! It always saddens me to see so much vocal aggression toward proship people who just want to enjoy their self ships and participate in the community. It’s really a vocal minority that is so hostile, so[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
NEW F/O NEW F/O NEW F/O!!! You can ask me about him if you want!!
Ya know, you’re right, but sometimes I get embarrassed easily, especially talking about myself. ^^;; So thanks for asking. Back in the early 2000s I used to self ship with one of the most niche characters of all time, and[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
When you snuggle with your F/O are you the big spoon or the little spoon?
eternally caught between “his hubris is going to be the death of him” and “just let me watch that beautiful man fly close to the sun. I’m sure it’ll be fine this time.”
Anon, you should! A friend of Toko’s who is sadly no longer with us got us to finally engage with the community last year, and it has been a great experience for all of us. The self ship community, especially[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
What counts as a F/O is different for everybody. At it’s very most basic, an F/O can be any character that you have a crush on, or feels important or close to you. Many people call a character that’s extra[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
2003-2005ish era self ship art from my photobucket! Array of S/Is with Syndrome, Otto Octavius, Snively (from Sonic) and… sigh…. Stinky (Casper 1995).
Self-insert! It’s the version of “you” that you ship with your fictional other, or an OC that you ship with them that you project yourself on.
Self ship prompt: You and your F/O switch bodies for the day! (either your body or your S/I, either works). ๐คฃ Share a funny anecdote about the swap. ๐คฏ What’s something you learn about one another due to the swap?[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
First of all, anon, no matter what, you are not a poser. Self shipping is very personal, and kind of means something different to every person who does it. should i be treating my relationships with my f/o’s like they[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Ahhh, I’m really glad! <3 we’ve had parental f/os since we were really little, both platonically and romantically. We’re happy to share the idea!
Language of Flowers ask game The language of flowers is a complex understanding of symbols and meanings that goes back centuries. Each unique bloom has its own meaning when given and received. Your followers can send your f/o flowers to[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…
Actually yes, lets make F/E be a thing! Not to be too homestuck on main but the idea of blackrom selfshipping has a good vibe!!!
Self-Insert and F/O Shipping Prompts Ask Game 1: How did your S/I and F/O meet? 2: Whatโs the thing that most attracted your S/I to your F/O when they met, and the other way around? Were there any complications on[…]↓ Read the rest of this entry…